Idk sometimes i feel as if i am happy and content and the next second i am sad and lonely.
Though I don’t like to make boy problem the biggest problem in my life but right now it is. Coz everything else in my life is going smooth except for my relationship. Idk why I always fall for someone who doesn’t love me back. Maybe i am unlovable idk. I try to divert my mind or think of self respect and ignore him but i cannot coz i am in love.
Sudiptaa @sudiptaaaa
Hit me up let’s cry together lol
Yeah i wanna cry too 😭
Can I join the gang 😭😭
Sudiptaa @sudiptaaaa
Yes
I know exactly wht you are going through,cause i have been there. But i will tell you one thing, YOU CAN’T LOVE SOMEONE TRULY UNTIL AND UNLESS YOU DON’T LOVE YOURSELF, to sum it up, fall in love with yourself first and then see how the world changes! This is tested and proven in my case. Apart from relationship, i would suggest you to start writing a diary everyday, or start practicing meditation, its of great help
Omg i really have started writing a diary recently coz of all this. But just tell me should i stay with him? I mean he does make me feel special and you know everything seems perfect but he is jus so involved in his life that i feel as if i am unimportant, sometimes.
Babe, you feel unimportant because you make yourself feel that way. YOU ARE IMPORTANT AND For that, he isn’t responsible to make you feel the same. Its the love you chose didn’t you? Then why to add expectations to sure a pure thing that you guys share? Yes, if he starts to ignore you, abuse you or hurt you badly, even then you won’t let him go until and unless you don’t realise your own importance. So value yourself first, don’t put such a huge burden on that guy, coz everytime we put expectations out there, we end up disappointed. So, just start loving yourself, and then see how things change
Never give the key to your happiness into someone else’s hands!
Also, i think he loves you, he’s just an ambitious person like some of us are! He is there with you because he loves you, but he has his life as well na?
One sided love only hurts and causes harm to you. Always remember to love yourself first and then anyone else. If you will love yourself you always prioritize yourself, your self respect and your mental health. And if someone doesn’t love you back even if you have been giving your 100% then they surely don’t deserve your love. Move on, take a break nd enjoy life. The right one will definitely find you and you will not need to force love with the right one. I hope it helps :)
Stay happy.
Yeah it really is helpful. But its really very hard to give up. Somewhere in the corner of my heart I know all these things but i dnt wanna accept them. I keep thinking maybe things will change coz i guess i want them to…
I can understand your situation. But try to figure it out. Try to analyze whether he desrves your efforts and your sufferings or not. If your mind says yes, then work on it and make things better. But if deep inside you know that things are not going to change for better and in the longer run you are the one who is going to suffer then please move on fpr your sake. I know it’s difficult but this is what is food for you and your future.
How to know if someone is in love with me or not?
What if one day I stop putting in efforts and then i realise he did love me?
If someone doesn’t love you when you are putting all this effort then what makes you think otherwise!? The person who truly loves you will see all your efforts and will value that. The person who doesn’t will start taking you for granted.
And in what form should i expect this value ?
If you are putting all your efforts your partner will acknowledge that and will put efforts from their end as well.
If a person values you they will never put themselves in a position to lose you. Understand this.
