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Idk I am thinking so much or I am exaggerating…
But I don’t feel good
I have a cousin who gets so annoying at times …Like no girl talk to him idk why but U don’t like to talk to him … I just congratulated him for his graduation he is like thanks babe …that’s ok but he is messaging me continuously though I reply him after 2days … If I do not reply him he messages to my mom complaining that I doesn’t reply to his messages… I stay away from him because he is very touchy… I was sitting in a car going for a family picnic we were so many people he came and sat beside me and was cracking nonsense jokes and was placing his hand on my lap I felt so uncomfortable thank god my other cousin helped me to get away from him…, then we went to the pool so he followed
me there and accidentally touched my boobs…IDK it was an accident or something else but he is being very cringe …I talked about it to my mom she is like I am thinking too much… he is nice … Infact I showed her the messages she is like I am being orthodox I showed her that he has messaged me I am a playboy n stuff Infact he had written that he has physical relationship with many girls but I have never replied him more than hmm ,k y he is being so cringe n touchy …
Today he sent me very vulgar message and unsend kiya after I seen it and told me sorry it was sent by mistake…
I mean how can you send such a vulgar message to your sister sab mistake mere sath kyu …
What should I do I am so clueless…

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Anonymous

Sounds like my story from past.
•Try to speak to ur other cousins, they will help (elder ones are better).
Through my experience, I ignored or didn’t told anyone (obvsly told mom but like urs she didn’t believed). Alas, when it he became intolerant, I blocked him, n yelled at him alot and 1 slap.
Trust me its been 7years, he still don’t dare to speak to me.
I can understand your frustration really well, and the fact that we don’t wanna make a scene in family; but at time have to tame such cousins.
Block him, if he complain to mom, tell her you are no comfortable and you don’t wanna reply him. Yell at him atleast once.

Anonymous

Ahm tbh…just tell him directly that you dont like him and them just block him…