Idk everything is just hard like dealing with relationships is so complicated when ur the type of person who gets connected to people so easily and when it’s time to let go of those people u can’t cause that shit hurts soo much. But yk that u need to let them go cause they are taking a toll on your mental health😶🌫️
Amrit @a_k_18
I feel you it does hurt when you have to let something go when ur really attached to it
I’m new to this app so I don’t know where the dm option is!
Amrit @a_k_18
Exactly and then u think they were ur everything but sometimes the person that is like ur daily habit and ur drug but then they walk away from u as if nothing ever happened but then u let them go cause u want them to be happy
No sometimes it’s just that Yk it’s ur time to walk away from that person because u don’t deserve all that they put u through without even realizing it but they don’t wanna let u go and they manipulate u to stay and it’s just toxic
Amrit @a_k_18
Yeah I see that but tbh u can’t always have ur way if u wanna be with someone u both have I fix ur way u have to build up bay trust and loyalty
But what if u have trust issues cause of ur past and what if the person says he will change but everything ends up staying the same!
Amrit @a_k_18
Then that person doesn’t deserve u!!! U should know ur worth ur amazing and if someone can’t treat u like ur their entire world then u don’t need that! But at the same time they do have a life outside of just the relationship u have to understand that and make it fair give them time to be with other people they love too
Yes I get that but then why does he get mad when I hangout with my guy friends but I shouldn’t be mad that he follows and talks to alot of girls on social media saying they are just friends
Amrit @a_k_18
If he’s doing that then no if ur not allowed to have guy friends and hang out with them in that relationship leave right there cause he can’t do that to you some guys are always self centered!! Do you guys talk everyday??
Yes everyday! We met in September and started dating in like mid October and then we broke off in the beginning of November cause he felt obligated and he said he wouldn’t be able to give me much time in the future so I was like okay. But then somehow again in like mid November we got back together and he said let’s just do the talking phase and all but like it’s like he lies a lot…he lies about where he’s at sometimes, like we talk on Snapchat mostly and it tells when the person was active and he’s active sometimes and won’t even respond to my text…as well as we barely hang out cause of his work now like we just text everyday that’s it
I feel you. This happens more frequently than often. But you learn from every experience. And one day you will be strong and have a clear idea of what you want or not… it’s alright. Part of life
Amrit @a_k_18
Everyone is different you just have to give them a chance honestly
