I’d rather be wanted than needed. I think nobody should be everyone’s everything and rather than saying “i can’t live without you” i prefer “i CAN live without you, but i chose not to” . It’s much more powerful + healthier.
I don’t wanna be kept around as a necessity, i want those around me to keep me around because they want to, because they like me and i make them happy. I’ve always felt needed but never wanted, and i’ve also always kept people around solely bc i feared being alone. Now that i’ve changed and i only surround myself with people by choice and not bc i feel the need to im much happier and i’ve finally found people that i truly connect with.