Iam getting really anxious rn like my guy friend texts me gn everyday but it seems like he didn't i am worried that something might have happened to him.. actually he has high bp that's why

But he always talks about getting a heart attack or smtg and his bp was really high today and he was sad that's why iam more worried 

Maybe he has not slept yet. Or maybe he forgot. And it you are still worried just give him a call

Anyways chill guys he is fine i was just worried for no reason 

3am Thoughts

Is he wrong or am I jealous? I met this guy over a yr ago. We both agreed that due to our situation (he is younger than me and I'm recently separated) we won't commit to anything. Initially when we got together and he drunk a little, he would get emotional and talk about his ex...that's all he talked about how much he loved her etc. I used to listen and sympathize. Now after over a year (he calls me his gf).. every once in a while he goes MIA and fully ignores me for a day or two. When I ask, he says either he wasn't in the mood cuz he heard about his ex, or he had a dream about her....I told him I'm not jealous and respect his past but it's over a year now and it hurts me when he does that. He has told me multiple times that no matter who he is with or how long, he will always love her.... I feel like I'm always trying so hard for his love and attention...a familiar cycle. 😔

Love

So I've been in a relationship for 2.5 years now. at the beginning of the year my boyfriend had to leave for work for 6 months and while he was gone I met a guy and we totally hit it off and became really really good friends. Somewhere in those 6 months my bf and I took a break and me and the other guy started hanging out more and well one thing lead to another. So after the 6 months my bf comes back and we decided to work on things and we've been trying but I can't seem to leave the other guy. I like both of them soo much and I dont want to lose either of them and I know I'm being selfish and a terrible person but I just I love my boyfriend and I care so much about the other guy and ive tried to stop talking to the other guy bu it never goes through buy u I can't break up with my bf

Confusion

Hey all, I am in a confusion, please help me out. A few days back, a guy reached me on Instagram, I has met him in a party. We talked regularly for a few days, we even flirted , he was showing interest in me, even I was. Then slowly he reduced the convos, but he was gentle everytime. Now we just like each other's posts and occasionally exchange casual greetings. I wish to know him more and talk to him , but I don't want to look like a creep or despo. Should I text him or just leave this thought , what if I text and he doesn't reply, It's getting so restless for me. I look at his pictures daily and ignore the idea of reaching him out, what should I do now?

Crush

What should I do?
I proposed my best friend and at that time he refused because he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and we didn't talk for some days as friends too and he wanted to break our friendship but now he's back and asking me do I still love him. When he left I was depressed so now I don't know what to respond

Hope

I met a guy around March last year...we started seeing each other...in these 10 months he has ended things between us quite a multiple number of times...he ends things in the morning saying it is not working out...and at night comes back in night saying sorry as he was not in good mood...once he randomly stopped talking to me...I tried contacting him not replied me back not took my calls...removed me from everywhere and now after 4 months he texts me that he has committment issues and wants to get back...I don't know what happened to me and I forgive him and we started seeing each other again...and not to my surprise he again stops talking to me and now again comes back...I have tried having the conversation with him that he should decide whether he wants me in his life or not...everytime he says yes he wants and again cuts me off from him life whenever he wants...I don't know what should I do.

Long Distance Relationship

Hello dear community
I wanted to share something strange happened to me today.
I am 30y female. After 10 years, I got to know from my classmate that he always liked me and loved me. He came up with a marriage proposal. He said he was waiting for the right time. 
I liked him but not in love because we were from the same area. 
He was eager to convince me that I was with the wrong guy 10 years ago. (I know that and broke up with him after 1year). But he kept nagging on that point that I did a huge mistake. He also said to me that he would have slapped me for not falling for the other guy.
I did not like this slapping thing I took it as a red flag but somehow I am also thinking may be I am being very harsh on just some words. May be he said it out of love only just for saying.
I know it must be difficult for him to see me with another man at that time and I understand that his emotions are pure, otherwise he would not have told me that he has always loved me after a decade.. 

Please suggest if I am wrong to turn him down? 

Relationships

my boyfriend is now out of town and i really miss him he is not talking to me in the sense he's always busy with his family and i totally understand that i dont want creat any sort of problem for him or his family i just want to talk to him but i feel lonely at times also i dont want to sound desperate idk he wants me to deactivate my acc on instagram he doesnt let me post anything without his permission im not saying hes overprotective or toxic but cutting off everyone and focusing on him being loyal to him i did every single thing just to please him and see him happy but now that feel lonely i really dont have anyone to talk with this makes me depressed 

Lonely

What kind of person is my boyfriend if he said to me that all men are cheating and that Beauty Expires and a young girl will always be more attractive.I said that I dont think so and he said that yes,maybe not all men cheat then because of values(he kinda agree with me)byt he said values not because of love ...ans he said  but to every men give him a woman and if he is sure that no one would ever find out that he will sleep with her.After that i showed him a picture with Jessica Alba and I told him that not all woman on their 40 are not attractive and she said I see but look at her when she was youg,she was better and now she is expired.I mean he called her Expired.And after he told me a new girl in intriguing cause a man wants to know will she give him herself or no.After that I told him that I feel like he will do this and he said that no,of course no Im just honest and tell you how men think.I felt offended.After he told me he would never cheat but I felt that something is wrong.Few months had gone after this incident and I still feel that something about  his way to think and express this to me is not right ....does this mean that he will say that I am expired too when I get older?is it worth to trust him that he just said his opinion and that he would never cheat ?but why then he said that all men would cheat with a young girl if no one would find out?Am I right or over reacting?What is your opinion?😳

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