Some time he say you have to do more or you are not good enough but the fact he want you to be the best ever 😉

You will never be enough ,he want you to be always better so it will goo for ever 

I wish I was enough for my dad

Family

Can I blame my dad for being selfish

Mental Illness

I don’t like my dad at all he’s not a good human being.

Relationships

I'm facing this very particular issue while being at home.
I live in a small size locality with no room for privacy/dnd environment .So now that us and our parents are home most of time and usage of phones has increased. My dad tends to receive and watch content that's very different and opposite to what I believe in and it's polarising as well to hear. He dislikes using earphones or listening to stuff at less volumes and when I nudge him ,he gets angry and refuses to use them. The content makes me anxious and affects my outlook to things. 
Have you encountered anything similar ? How do you work these kind of things out with dominant/aggressive parents ? 

Parenting

This household isn’t for people who want to thrive in life - you try do something good & automatically get shut down because it’s not “the way dad likes it” 


3am Thoughts

This maybe boring if you don't like reading long texts. I wanna un-bottled up.
When i was around 9 my family wasn't so great my father had drinking problem. My mom was sick of it and me my mom kind of left dad for about 2 years or so. During time when he was drinking my mom and father fight but my dad wasn't abusive nor he would curse when he gets drunk. In those days we were living with the mom's side of relatives. I often gets scolded about my dad's drinking problem by my aunts. Also at around 6 i didn't wanted to go to school but my aunt forced me to. As a kid i was afraid and then she hit with a really big wood relatively larger and heavier than 3 baseball bats. While i was getting hit and crying i looked over to my mother she was cooking in the kitchen. I asked for help but looked at me with a smile and ignored me. At around 9 my family got together we were living in harmony when my dad gets drunk he used to come to me and say how much he loves me and also does the same thing to mom. One day stray puppy was dying my dad looked after it and found a rubber band tied around its neck. He asked me if i did it.  I said no. He was suspicious but truly to this day i am not sure if i did it. It started hunting When i was 10.  As a silly kid i was doing silly things . One day i found 3 used batteries. I put wires and tapes at each ends and plugged in thinking it would charged the batteries ofcourse batteries exploded. Dad heard and hit me for doing such stupid act well i kinda deserved it but the moment he accused me killing a pup in the past.  I got mad and got traumatised. Now we live happily both my family and relatives.  But whenever i argue with a family member . I just ignore them or even sometimea i juts walk outta the house. I don't feel attached to anyone not even my parents. I kinda feel peaceful when i'm living alone except only problem is night anxiety.

Smoking

Arghh
I got a call from my clg work some work and my dad was shouting soo loudly and was giving very very bad words and rhe other person on call heard it all… I just muted it and cut the call and texted will call you tmrw in the morning…
I’m feeling soo shameful and embrasing like yrr my image is very good in clg and my dad keeps on shouting for the whole time with bad words arghhh

I’ve been sexually abused by my stepdad for all of my teen years, my mum never believed me untill I was strong enough to go to the police. He is now in prison but my mum still chooses to talk to him over the phone regularly and visits him often. She always makes herself the victim in this situation because she lost her financial stability when my stepdad went to prison. I’ve tried to maintain a relationship with my mum and she claims she does love me however I’ve caught her many times talking bad about me to my husband and his family, she constantly puts me down by calling me names and says I am a bad mother to my 2 little baby’s. Is it worth keeping a relationship with my mum? I’ve come to a realisation she is toxic, is it worth having her in my life and my kids life??

Conflict

Sad. I had a fight with my dad.. And he told me and my mom to leave the house tomorrow morning. My dad is a selfish person who bought this house with the help of my maa.. He sold her gold necklace and took all her money., then bought this house.. But registered it only on his name. He never spend money on my tutions. As I am a girl. Thanks to my mom's govt job I survived. But I am having mental breakdown because I have always seen my parents fighting since childhood.Dad is a terrible person,he cheated mom. Dad behaved very good and friendly with other women.. But he behaves with my mom very poorly. That's why I can't trust man who acts good in front of me. I am currently preparing for govt job exams.. But sometimes I am having mental breakdown like this. I can't stop crying right now. 

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