I will put it out, I am a 21 year old Virgin and I feel left behind when my closest of friends are loosing their virginity and talk about it as a honourable act, which might be true. But I am intimidated and scared! Btw I am a guy, any suggestions?
Its ok it’s just sex anyone can do it literally ANYONE and trust me losing it to someone special is a good thing to wait for!!
Well, thanks for making it sound so rudimentary and straightforward, I really appreciate. It is just me trying to fit in the norms imposed by society or to be precise my friends.
I am a girl but same… my friends lives with their partners and most of them already bought a house together. And me ? Am I a joke ? I never even kissed anyone, while they talking about kids they planning to have in the next years…
That might be really tough and a whole lot distressing. I know its cliché to say wait for the right person and bleh bleh… wise words. But to be brutally honest after a certain age things get quite unnerving and increases the nervousness while dating someone with no experience. Hold on, we will make it through!