I went to a restaurant with my boyfriend and he was acting very nervous and in front of me he said that :when that whore will come to bring us food?and in another day he also commented very ugly words about another waitress and even did not like the bread and took the bread in his hand ,squeezed it and threw it a bit further on the table and said that the bread is too soft and when the waitress comed he said to her that he doesnt like the eggs that they are not hot but cold and the eggs has to be in a glass and showed to the waitress a picture and she responded to him that they just simple boil the eggs and in that restaurant they dont put the eggs in a glass and she doesnt know where he seen that but during their conversation he was aggresive with her and she asked him to calm down and told him that if he wants she may boil the eggs again and give him hot eggs and explained that they are a bit colder because they were in cold water in order to make for him easier to clean an eggshell.Now,when in another day again while we were in a restaurant he kept saying to me that the waitress is a bitch and was acting nervous I asked him to stop acting like that and calling her names and he did that again and I took a glass of clean water and throw it on his tshirt(not face but tshirt)and asked him to calm down and stop calling that girl ugly names (I did that because he was acting with no respect towards her and this pissed me off-even if she didnt hear his comments I am still a woman and for me in unpleasant when a man is doing that) and when I did that to him with clean water he called me a fucking bitch and said wtf you did ,how could you dare do throw the water at me …and I said you better eat alone and he said fuck you and I went outside from that restaurant and left him there(I really could not eat with him because his behavior and comments about waitress made me nervous) …do you think I did right or my behavior was very ugly?I would really appreciate some honest opinion,thank you….do you think I should go back to him cause he said that he is sorry but I feel something is wrong here…what is your opinion?
u did right thing but u should have asked him why was he doing that instead of throwing water or something ik u got pissed but still u should have asked normally hm…its okay u lost ur patience I can understand! ya but now ask him that why did he do that if u think the reason is a good one u can try to solve that but the reason itself doesn’t make sense then I don’t think so it’s good to go back and if he takes u that restaurant again and repeats it ask him peacefully dont fight or something just ask him normal and try to solve it ya that’s it ig fighting or yelling might not solve things or help in knowing things but doing it peacefully will or might solve!
I see the problem is that this is not first time he is acting like that but the 100 time and the reason he is dping like this is because this is how he behaves in society and even a woman who is a receptionist in a hotel did a police report on him after seeing him for first time and told him that he is prohibited to enter the hotel…everywhere he goes he starts to act with other like they are a piece of shit and I observed this a lot of times and with me also he acts like that so thats why I threw water ,to cool him down because I allready asked him to not insult the waitress and other people and to make me feel ashamed because he is scresming at others like he is insane and people are looking at him and they may think that I am crazy as him for choosing someone like him…its a lot here to tell but with such a person,when he insults me calling me whore,garbage and trash because he has a problem with his nerves then comes a day when throwing with water is nothing when he diserves someone to kick his ass so he learns how to respect and treat other people….
omggg I thought it was nly few times though it was more I thought he had some problem which might be solved but I think what u did was totally right and i think u don’t deserve this bro u deserve more!!
Noooo,if it was one time I would never throw water(yes he did that every time he sees me )like everywhere…and I told him to stop cause I am ashamed by the fact that he acts like an insane agressive person in the public…
Once he told me that he entered a store (I wasnt with him,thx God) and he was acting fine and the security called the police in him and told ne that security guardians had hallucinations and that he eas acting very good so I made conclusions after seeing with how much hate he insults woman in front of me and angry voice that the fact that people are afraid of him is actually true and his fault…thanks for your reply and I really do appreciate your time to read my story!thank you a lot🙏🙏🙏🙏
yaap I was wrong sorry but ya u did the right thing I appreciate u! u deserve more then this…
🚩🚩🚩 end it girl
Usually, I write a lot but…
I don’t know after reading your post…
All I can say is -Break up with him. Do not go back to him. Even if he begs you.
That guy does not deserve you. He is not a good guy.
And I have to admit… You did good throwing water over him ;)
I hope this helps…
Clearly you deserve someone else. That guys actions were really bad. He needs therapy. Good thing that you splashed water on him. If I was you I would have done the same.