rose @mixxed
I was with someone who it turns out has been lying and cheating on me for over a year, kept trying to replace me with someone else only he couldn’t find someone. Screamed, shouted, would smash things or drive like a maniac if I found something that proved he was lying or if i asked a question, then on mother’s day left me without even a goodbye after finding out I was pregnant and refused to get rid if it. He’s with his other females now, in 17 weeks pregnant n have no clue what to do. I feel so used, humiliated, heart broken, in agony.
Umar Hanif @umar
That is so sad mam i am here if u want to talk if that makes u a little better
Adri Farm @adrika
I definitely know how you must be feeling. If you want the child be strong. This world if full off adversities. And you should be happy that he left cause.you weren’t going to leave him . He never cared for you or loved you.
You want to talk I’m here for you. I’m a young married women i know how you feel.
rose @mixxed
Thank you, I appreciate you taking the time to reply. You were right about me never being able to leave If he didn’t and he would’ve left eventually anyway cause he won’t love the baby and will resent us. He was always looking to replace me so it was always a matter of time, just better he’s done it now before the baby has arrived instead of after. Gives me time to heal and let him go so I can focus on the baby when it arrives x
How I look at it is that you now have to choose between 2 roads. One is that you give up now after 17 weeks of standing like a rock and maybe wonder for the rest of your life how different your life could’ve been if only you wouldn’t have given up then. And two, you realise that you have a life growing inside of you who is going to be your responsibility and who is going to bring you happiness like nothing you could have ever comprehended.
I know the choice isn’t easy but maybe the thought of having a little life to love you more than any person can may make it easier. And remember you aren’t alone… seek your friends out, go out again, enjoy your life and find ways to be happier. And be thankful to god that man left you because it saved your child from the trauma and the permanent scars he was capable of giving it.
rose @mixxed
Thank you. Your words fill me with hope and I know you’re right. I can see your point and I agree with everything you said. Thank you for taking the time to reply to me.
