I was toxic. I just my bf sooo much (with my anger issues). He thought of ending this relationship. I realised my mistakes. I demanded one chance and he was willing. He said he too wants to make this work, provided I work on myself. I’ve changed. I don’t do the things he asked me not to. I’ve mostly gotten rid of all those toxicity he hated. But he doesn’t feel like my bf anymore. He doesn’t care. He sleeps over fights, doesn’t try to mend it. Never says I love you/I miss you first. Even though he claims I’m overthinking. Now idk what to do. I love this guy and life without him is unimaginable. But he doesn’t seem interested. Pls I need suggestions and not blame that you made him like that. I realise I’m at fault. Now what should i do?
Apne kabhi realise Kiya ki wo kya chahta hai ?
Puchne ki koshish ki. Usne har baar kaha ki mujhe shanti chahiye life me. Aur kuch nahi.
To phir Move on kyu nhi ho jate ap ?
Khud ko blame na kiya karo kbhi bhi agar glti kr rhe ho tb thik h lekin bina wajah nhi kro
I realised it by myself. Constantly getting mad at him for doing small mistakes. Every time belittling him. Teri aukat nahi hai mujhe hurt krne ki blah blah aisi baate bolna. I realised this is toxic behavior.
Yes. Ik. Guilty of it. But sometimes I feel that if he didn’t want to be with me, why would he? He could have walked out on me right? So if he’s staying he too wants the same thing. Now idk what to do to get the old him back?
Can we talk ?
