I was part of a small group where I made connections with them but with time the friend group expanded and I find it hard to make connections with them . Now I feel like I’m the least liked friend . 

It's like everywhere buddy. All groups experience it all. On the contradictory,  the one whom u think are close , somewhere in their mind they are least liked too. 
So don't think too much about it , just carry on friendship casually. Instead u can try to indulge yourself in work or study whatever you are pursuing...

ur lucky than someone like me who dont have friends


What’s the point of having friends if they don’t feel the same towards you 

Whenever I share my problems with my friends the always shut me off by saying they are busy or any other excuse. On the contrary, whenever they are feeling or messed up I am the first one the approach. I give them an ear, suggestions and do whatever best I can do but it is never reciprocal. 
When it comes to them, they will know sharing problem helps but why is it that in my case it becomes less important?

Confusion

since my mom died all my friends kinda turned their back on me and are treating me like I did something wrong. I am just trying to heal. all of them left me at the time I needed them the most and now they are acting like everything is fine but they are really hurting my feelings and there is a lot of stuff happening right now with my dad and family. it is really stressfull

I am just confused with all my feelings and emotions; Although i have lots of friends, some are close too but I feel they just don't reciprocate the same towards me.i am just loosing all my faith in friendships. I have good Friends like if we haven't talked for a long time and meet its been like hours passes in seconds. but we are junior clg friends gang, they have their own battles to won so no one gets into each other's life.Talking about new friends when they needed I was there but when I look back it's just like I was the only one who is working on all the stuffs towards the bond.so i am leaving all the things behind working towards myself and solving all the stuffs or problems by myself to get strong.Bye have a great night 

Friends

Hi lol, this is my first time here. I am here because rn I'm having some friendship issues, and because I tend to keep things to myself, I didn't talk to anyone about this. So here goes nothing lol. What happened was I moved to a new school and made some friends. There aren't a lot of "groups" in this school because its a private school and there are only like 30 people per grade. I have a bunch of friends, which I will be giving fake names to help makes it more clear. So one "group" of friends that I hang out with is made up of me, Selena, Rachel, and Haylee. Then there are other people I'm friends with, and well call them Stephanie and Carol (carol is everybody else I'm friends with that are not as relevant to the story). So basically, I don't like hanging out with the "group" because they gossip a lot, and when they get mad at someone, they will talk about them behind their backs. Recently Haylee came to me and told me how she doesn't like hanging out with them as well, and she told me how they (Selena and Rachel) had gotten mad because I went to a party they were not invited to, and they thought I should have told them before going. I thought that was pretty dumb since I can make my own decisions, and they shouldn't have to approve of them because its not their decision to make. She also told me how they hate it when Haylee or I sit next to other people because apparently to them, that means that were tryhards and we want attention. The thing is when Haylee told me this, she started opening up to me and telling me her feelings, and I felt like we had a connection, and I was really happy that I wasn't the only one who doesn't like hanging out with them. Another reason I was happy was that at the beginning of the year, Haylee and Stephanie were friends since we were both new to this school. However, at the beginning of the year, I always felt like crap every day because it seemed to me as Haylee and Stephanie were bonding without me. I was always the one who would walk alone when the hall or road narrowed, They would always walk beside each other and talk, and I felt excluded because whenever I tried to join the conversation, they would sometimes not even respond. When Haylee opened up to me, I thought that that meant we were best friends and that she had always thought of me that way. Soon though, I began to feel the same thing that happened at the beginning of the year was happening again. Little note is that Haylee and Stephanie did start to drift apart a little but not so much. They soon became best friends again, and I was happy and all, but they seem to be doing the same stuff over and over again. And today, I wanted to sit in between them so that I can talk with both of them, but they both wanted to sit together and kept whining about it, so I had to sit beside all excluded and everything. I tried to get in their conversation, but I can't when they have their backs turned to me and when they don't seem to be listening at all. I'll make jokes about feeling excluded sometimes as a way to hint them kind of and as a way to make them laugh, but all they do is say "awww no it's not like that" and continue talking with each other, without me, like nothing ever happened. This makes me feel like crap and like I'm not a good friend. It hurts me, but I don't want to say anything to them because I feel like I sound clingy and like a drama queen, and so I don't know what to do. Pls tell me if I'm overreacting I'm not sure if I am and I don't want to end up opening up to them then being called a drama queen.

Relationships

i dont have any friends. i dont feel the need to have any friends. all the previous friends ive had have only broken my trust and left me wounded for the next person to do the same. i think that socialisng is NOT one of the basic human needs. does that make a sociopath ?

Is it weird that I feel like my friends are forgetting me? I have a group of friends whom I have known since middle school and we ended up going to different high schools. We were the best of friends and every time we plan on going to the cinema or eating out, they never ask me, they tell me and we plan it out together. But now we made new friends in our current schools but I still talk to them, well one out of the two. I get that we're busy and stuff but they never bother to say hello first and it just makes me feel irrelevant. out of the two friends, I still talk to one and we're still close and recently he invited me to picnic with him and the other friend, however,  instead of feeling excited I feel like I'm intruding and I starting to feel like it's not my place anymore to be with them. The worst part is that I chose to go to a different school because it had a subject that would help with my future career and I feel like it's my own fault for letting this happen.

It has been almost 2 years in University....I tried my best to make friends but almost all of them turned against me by being the toxic person in my life....I gave them my time, my friendship everything....but each and everyone tried to break me....I will always be at ease to let go of people from my life, but now I am all alone by myself seeing people enjoying around...not even having a person to share my thoughts with in the hostel...I do live far from my home....it feels so lonely, every Little damn thing...I always had a hard time making friends...but if I somehow manage to make a few they turn out to be the most toxic one like they only have me as their friend as everyone else is trying to avoid them....I am so bad that I do deserve all this, maybe I am....
Thank you for reading....

College

I have had no friends since I was 14 years old, it's being a life without friends and any successful relationship for so long .... Makes me sad ....

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