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I was madly in love with guy X for over 3 years. He is a great guy. He had his own troubles but he always stayed loyal to me. And i always tried to support him in all of his problems. Though, we had fights as he couldn’t make me his priority ever.

Now, about a month ago i mey guy Y. We both are preparing for the same exam. He is also a great guy but i haven’t met him physically but he does feel like a great guy.

About 20 days ago, i broke up with guy X.

Things aren’t that great with guy Y and i haven’t met him but i do have little feelings for him.

Yesterday, Guy Y send me this message

“”“” Listen i am going to say this for the last time and then it’s all you
If you don’t want to end it then you don’t have to. Eventually you will get to become everything you want to be with me. Eventually you can love me also. Eventually you will really love the the person you are. This is not very complicated trust me. But if you really think that you can achieve those by leaving it’s really your decision. You can do what’s best for you. And trust me it’s not the best for me ( you leaving)
I would have forced you to stay but not now. Having feelings for someone means to free people and to not bind them in chains
Reply to this message TODAY ONLY IF YOU WANT TO STAY

OTHERWISE DONOT REPLY.!! “”“”“”"

Now, i am stuck between X and Y

I have been with X for 3 years, we are so comfortable with each other. And i don’t want to break his heart because i still have feelings for X. Those feelings are not that strong but they are still stronger than what i have for Y.

I know it is selfish of me for even discussing this. But, i really do need opinions. I can’t break either of their hearts.

Please help me.

All i know is that my family approves of X. And we actually are comfortable. And then there is this guy Y, haven’t met him but i feel this connection to him.

Help please.

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Ujjwal @ujjwals

Go for people you met in person.

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Anonymous

Should i stay friends with both then?
I think this is the best option.

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Ujjwal @ujjwals

You have to let go one of them because you have feelings for both. This will create a irresistible love triangle in name of friendship with lot of pain.

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Anonymous

Gotcha. I should leave Y then.

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Ujjwal @ujjwals

If you meet Y you will get to know him real better and then you can decide. I wonder why you even think of Y. Maybe X is gone long ago from your mind.

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Anonymous

With X things were very tough. We didn’t talk a lot. Couldn’t spend time. But i understood everything all the time. He is always busy with his life and i just kept on waiting for his calls and messages. I care for him a lot but i don’t love him that much now.

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Ujjwal @ujjwals

That charm seems lost. Then leave X and go for Y or Z.

Ishita @ishita

The thing is I simply can’t just leave X. He will just end up losing his faith. I decide on being with both of them.

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Ujjwal @ujjwals

Okay all the best

Ishita @ishita

Thank you

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Anonymous

Go for X and make Y understand about things are like this and really you deserve more but if we can’t continue that doesn’t mean we can’t be friends we can be friends and one thing let him know one day relationships will break but friendship never dies even though you get married you can be in touch …

Ishita @ishita

Yeah, you are right.

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Anonymous

Hope this will help to manage somehow

Ishita @ishita

Yes, i feel the same way.

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Anonymous

Then go for it girl, don’t be late otherwise you will end up losing x and y.
Make things clear and transparent
I wish you all the best 👍

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Anonymous

Thank you so much

Ishita @ishita

Hey, i decide on being friends with both cause things with X are just lost now.

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Anonymous

I suggest this is the best option and you will be also free no discrimination in between them 🙌

Ishita @ishita

Yes i guess so

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Anonymous

I’m happy for you 😊 you are strong enough to take such decisions

Ishita @ishita

I wish you the best of life too.

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Anonymous

Hey thanks 😇 wish you the same

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Anonymous

I 5hink if you love someone… you won’t think about anyone else… you can have crush on someone but you don’t think of leaving the person you love…

What i understood is you don’t love X or may the thing with X is not somehow mutual

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