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Anonymous

I was in toxic relationship few months ago. I want to ask something…I don’t know how to identify true nature of a person…how to differentiate between a fake person who is doing all the good things and a genuine person… because of my previous experience I doubt every person…I don’t trust them… And because of that I panic sometimes, because I always think that this person will gonna hurt me later. what should I do??

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E T @e_t

Take some time , it will heal your wounds. Love yourself and set goal . Learn something new everyday. Spend time with your friends & family, read some books. That’s it. It will change your perspectives ❤️

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Anonymous

I doing the same things…but I sometimes panicked around unknown people

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curious boy @lazerstreax

Umm…I don’t know that but I feel if you stop thinking too much on it and start enjoying your life…it all can be healed

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Anonymous

Actually sometimes I feel I have moved on successfully but some days I feel sad…at that time I became too harsh on myself

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Anonymous

He also treated me well…but after sometimes I understood that was fake

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Anonymous

Happy that you found he was fake , sure you will find someone who loves you truly from 💓 heart

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Anonymous

But I feel uncomfortable around people…how can I find a person when I don’t talk to new people anymore

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Anonymous

You will find someone , there will be some one. With him you feel more comfortable and secured and make you feel special wait for the day

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Anonymous

Hope for the best

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Anonymous

Anyway thanks

E T @e_t

I faced the same issue. And was in a depressed state well. But somehow i realised that this is not the end. So i started working on me. Keeping busy always. Reading books, travel, listening music, spending time with family & friends. I know its definitely hard to manage the situation. But believe in your self. Time will heal everything

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Anonymous

Thank you so much…😊

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Anonymous

Stay strong, can I text you personally

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curious boy @lazerstreax

To be honest if you want to find that someone you have to take that risk of talking to new people and just pretend to be courageous even if you are afraid in that way it will slowly become your second nature to be fearless and bold in those kind of situations.

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Anonymous

Thank you for your advice…

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Anonymous

What’s you id

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Anonymous

Reply to Kiya hai…

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Anonymous

Ok

Kabir Raj @kabir21

Take your time and trust the process.
I too was in a ver toxic relationship where I got cheated twice. And it’s been month’s since I’ve parted ways but I’m not able to move on. And this is the main problem of people like us. So it will take some amount of time to get out of it comple.

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Anonymous

Thanks…all the best

Dilpreet @dil001

First of all dear, think about yourself as i also faced toxic relations in mah life .In my perspective, you should meet with people and make them friends .if you will like any friend from them then you should not purpose or say anything .you should look that he he or she cares you and think about you .if you will like his or her way of treating then after some time you should purpose or tell them❤️👍

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Anonymous

I don’t have any intention to fall in love again…but I sometimes feel uncomfortable to start normal conversation also

Dilpreet @dil001

I can understand you dear as i also know a person don’t like to do conversation with others when he or she get broked by someone so i think take time dear . When you don’t face any problem while talking or to start the conversation with other then you should talk with others.

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Anonymous

Actually there are so many good boys , but they will working towards their Career.There will be guys really love you but not talked you face to face even once.Move on from your old relationship, work towards your career next time choosing a boy be careful enough 🖤

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