I was in love with a boy a year back. Our relationship lasted for 3 years . That was my first and serious relationship .But he left me saying that I was boring .He didn’t even care for me. He used to talk with me whenever he felt bored. He wouldn’t reply to any of my messages otherwise. I had so many dreams about us. That was the major incident where I fell in my life… At present my parents had looked for a boy to get me married .He was our far relative. He used to text me daily and cared me too much. I felt uncomfortable for that too . because I had to tell him each and everything about the happenings in my life. He was over possessive. Today I directly said him this doesn’t work out for us. Suddenly he got angry and spoke bad about me as if that was my mistake and played with his life.
I am in a position where I can’t trust people. I am totally confused . The first one wasn’t even talking to me and now this person asks everything about me. I am totally hurt and had suicidal thoughts too… But I can’t strongly take any decision… I am the only daughter to my parents and it hurts them a lot.
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May I know your age please ?
21 years
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Do v discussed on it on insta ???
I think there are multiple things which needs to be understand first to conclude it on right mode.
No sir this is the first time I am confessing out with someone …We have not discussed it earlier
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Okay fine
Well for now you must think about yourself only don’t be in hurry as your only 21.
You may check my profile or some thoughts which I posted may be you will get your answer from there and if not then we can connect here again 😊👍🏻
Okay sir will go through it.thanks
I know these and I am personally going through similar stuff.finding out balance in a relationship is so hard and first of all you do not deserve the first guy at all and i feel that your are more worth than that .we some times think that that one guy attention is all we want and we feel like no body cares us or we are not worth it .but observe things around you there are lot of people very kind to you so many times.coming to second guy he thinks of you as a future wife or something so he thinks he has to know each and everything about you and when you do not reply they may feel like they have right to say anything to us which is not right either .if you still like the other guy and there may be a chance clear things and say things clearly that this is not how it works and things that bothers you .if he is fine with that try and think or else its better to dump.you are precious to yourself and your parents as well.do not over think .have a great day
