I was in a relationship with someone who was in love with a girl before but because of some issues they left each other , he had his break up in dec and in Jan he came with me , now after 9 months , he saw a post of her ex on insta with some other boy but that post was just a random thing she didnβt has a bf , now he wants to go back to the girl as he loves her so much , Iβm so worried that what was that we had for 9 months in relationship, in that time he never ever thought of the girl but now he is like dieing for her , now weβre not in relationship but we were friends from school time thatβs why I didnβt left him weβre staying like friends , Iβm trynna leavee him but anyhow he approaches me because he too is in sp kuch pain and depression because that girl isnβt coming back , I everyday listens him , understands his feelings and Iβm trying to make him feel good but this isnβt working , and in this process, I myself am so broken and unhappy that I canβt even feel my pain , Iβm not able to let it out , can someone help me out in this , what should I do , as I love him so much , Iβm not able to leave him neither he is letting me go , bcz he needs me in his pain !!
Iβll do the same
You too , thank you
Make things clear with him. Donβt get yourself stuck like this. And also by leaving the other person also gets to understand clearly what they want. I think itβs like she rejected me i want her and the one likes me i donβt want π
Yeah
No , thatβs actually right , Iβll be leaving him before he leaves me when the girl comes back π
No no youvare absolutely right!! I was saying people are like this these days, i wish people can understand thisπ
I know itβs going to be hard, but give somee time you will be in better place, tc buddyπ«, also sending more strength your wayπΈβ¨
Yesππ
Yeah
Thank you for understanding π«
Yeah , I get it , itβs hard but Iβll do it for myself to be at peace
Itna v selfless aur bada Dil mat rakho ki bad me khud ko hi khoo do. Feelings or emotions ko pe thoda control kro. And khud ke life choose kro
Haan , Iβll do the same
Are u the same person who posted or someone else β¦
The one who posted
Ookii
Mt profileβs name is singh_singh , I donβt know why itβs anonymous written there ??
You might have switched to anonymous before posting
Okay
Joker πππ @joker279
Leave that person as soon as possibleβ¦ donβt think anything else. Just think if in future also this happens he will go to her. He is just with you for the rebound. Like people needs someone to be with so he is just with you for his need . I donβt think he is liking you or loving you at all. Atleast from the scenario you explained.
Okay
Joker πππ @joker279
Yeah β¦ so think on it β¦ btw it was my opinion or suggestion. After that it should be always your decision with your consent ππ
Yeah , I get it , Iβll do the best for me π
Joker πππ @joker279
Good πβ¦ all the best wishes for the same ππ€
Mitr uss shaks ko chor do ap kyu ki ap jiske liye abhi ho wo khud apke liye nahi hai
Yeah , okay
I donβt know π