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Anonymous

I was in a long distance relationship. Did all the things that come with a marriage without being married. A week before flying in to see me, he tells me he can no longer be in this relationship. Moved onto someone else right after. Will he ever regret or feel remorse? We were speaking about marriage couple days before he called it off. People are so cruel. 2-3 year relationship.

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He will miss you

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Even though he moved on, he will still miss me? Will he try to reach out ever?

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Anonymous

Don’t think this way…u need to forget and forgive…stay strong and value yourself…but later in life he will regret what he did to u

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Anonymous

Okay so, listen sweetie i know and I truly know how hurtful it must be for you , it’s not easy to just walk away from all these things , it leaves you with a big whole in your heart and I understand this but if the other person does not realise the mistake or the hurt he/she has caused to someone does not mean that there was no hurt , it simply means it was the wrong person. So i read this somewhere and here it goes ‘ what if your mother treated you as badly as she could in your childhood , never supported you , never loved you , completely damaged you as a human being and now she at the end moment of her life but still hasn’t realised what she did to you then , then what? What does it mean? Does it mean that you are gonna stop existing, does it mean that you can’t move forward now? Does it mean that there was no pain? Does it mean that there was no harm , no damage? NO , simply NO! so understand this sweetie, no matter what , his realisation of the hurt he has caused you should never be able to determine your coming journey, okay sweetie?
And always always remember, KARMA IS REAL! but don’t wait to see that but move forward with peace! You deserve so much more and so much better , TRUST ME. God bless you.

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Anonymous

Ahh I really needed to hear this🥺🙏 karma is a real thing. I tell myself everyday that god is always watching. He saw things I did not see, heard conversations I did not hear and saw that this person made moves I wouldn’t make. I just have to accept and heal from it now.

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Anonymous

Yesss!! Heal sweetheart! Grieve. Give yourself time and care. I know it’s hard but I’m with you:)

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Okay I’ll be honest with you. If he has moved on, without even thinking twice about you and the years you’ve spent together, he won’t feel any remorse. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it’s very unlikely. All this happens in dramas and movies. Reality is far away from that.
But one thing is for sure, you’ll come out of this stronger. I can guarantee you that. It might take some time, but once you’re through, you’ll feel so much better about yourself. Don’t lose hope and always remember that every dard cloud has a silver lining.
Much love and strength to you!
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