I was in a five year long relationship which ended with mutual decision because he didn’t prioritised me and had difference in his words and actions. We were in touch because of course we were in love and always thought we will be together after sometime maybe because of the chemistry we share. But I felt it important to create a distance and were able to do that. After sometime I met someone and unless I was sure if I had moved on, I didn’t come in a relationship with this new person. Then that person made me feel alot and alot special and after sometime I started falling for him. We came in a relationship, enjoyed 1 month together and then got physical but after that, that person started changing. His actions and words did not match. And ultimately we had to end up things because he says he is not over his ex but he loves me and wants me back and just need some time.
Now I think about both of them.
I don’t know what kind of situation this is and what am I supposed to do.
I would suggest, take break and don’t get involved in serious relationship for sometime. Even if you fall for someone, try to avoid getting attached and don’t give commitment. Because it will damage you only.
I know I should. But the only question is how? I want to move on and forget about everything, but I just don’t know how!
You cannot forget things and you need time to move on. Even i have the same questions. But I can tell you what I am doing and if you want then you can also try. Just try to find things that makes you happy and that is not related to any person. Like sketching, writing poems, watching tv shows or focusing more on work or studies. Go out with friends who don’t need any extra efforts. And the moment you get anything about your relationship try to divert your mind at the earliest. Idk whether it’s just a way to escape but it might help you.
Take a break from relationships for a while
just take a break and enjoy ur own accompany
