I was in a 4 year relationship, we broke up 6 months back. Many guys have tried on me since they are really impressive and got great personalities but I just can’t or don’t want to I spoke to a few , not to lie the conversation was quite exciting and engaging but if you ask me if would go out with them for a date I just can’t. even if they are what I would want.
1. I just can’t imagine myself being all chirpy bouncy or happy like was in the relationship before.
2. a part of me wants to but I’m just tired.
3. What will my ex think… maybe we had a dim chance to get back and I blew it off. Even though he’s said he doesn’t feel anything for me anymore.
And we haven’t spoken ever since.
I miss him a lot.
Would I it be better to go for a casual relationship to heal from the previous one ?
The same happened with me but not to commit comes as a conclusion and I never knew that a casual would work but I still have the memories I spent with her at the spark of a pin as I also never got a closure but you got the same ad he said he is not anymore in you …
What you are going through and not the end of something, its the essential part of maturing with the experiences you have have earned, aging like fine wine. Carry lovable memoirs of what you have earned , discard the toxicity which came through your way. You learn with every relation, whether casual or not, accept everything with grace. Enjoy the perils.
Naah…stay single for sometime…read books…focus on carrer…casual stuff end up hurting you more
How are you doing rn