I was having difficulty moving on from my ex girlfriend mainly because of the hope of us getting back together and me thinking she was definitely the one and I would never find anyone better than her. Then yesterday I picked up a fight intentionally with her and things got really ugly. We ended up blocking each other it was that bad. After that I did feel lighter but since today morning I have this guilt that I can’t get rid of. Its like I destroyed what we had for so many years and I was kind of selfish here. How do I deal with this guilt.
Mimansha @mimansha
Do u know why did u start this fight ?
I was having difficulty moving on and I didn’t hear from her for a month. I wanted to kill the hope and thats why I started the fight. After it got ugly and we blocked each other so I know for a fact that we are never getting back together. I think this would help me move on but yes I do have some guilt if this was the only way or not.
SREE @sreejit
Just try calling buddy if it’s still not working ,go and see her,maybe a surprise,that’s the best to do…the effort you put in is all that matters buddy😊✌️
Nah dude trust me that would just make things worse. I wanted the fight to happen so I know that there is no chance at all. Nd now that we have blocked each other its kind of mission successful but with guilt.
SREE @sreejit
U just want to let her go but not go kind of thought bro…Do fix yourself on where you want to stand dude first…guilt feeling exists because ur other part wants not to do … that’s y and not because of a fight which you know yourself is made up…
The way I fought was definitely not how I am as a person. She even said one line ki at least you showed your real face. Which sort of hurt me. Because now she is gonna think that was the kind of person I am.
SREE @sreejit
Dude u want to have a decent breakup but want to be friends? Is that what you are looking …
No I don’t want to be friends. Because then I won’t be able to move on.
SREE @sreejit
When u want the breakup u should have told her like that…not this way …even if the breakup needs to be a mutual decision then only it won’t affect each other’s life like regret, guilt and all …So right now your character has a blotch because of this situation…and you want a breakup…it’s better now to do the ghosting…leave your guilt,if u start repairing that u may fail with the other…so fix what u want …and not the both…
Deep @themonk
Bro zyada din nhi hue hy na fight ko to fir tension mt lo… Normal ho jayega sb
I hope so too😔
You wait,if you are right, whatever some problem, everything will be good ,dil pe hath rakho or bolo all is well
