I was good alone, Man. Independent, no expectations, busy with myself. This dependency is killing me from inside after he came to my life. In 15 days we are marrying and I am very very scared, how would I survive. He is such a late replier. I hate that waiting period. He is sweet n all but this time difference and distance. I am really scared of my future, being him in my life and my growth journey has reversed it seems. All this marriage prep has to tired me up. I don’t even know if I am ready for marriage. I was good alone, mannnn, on my personal growth journey 😖
Then don’t do marriage. I am sure you would have taken a decision thinking about everything. If u r good alone, don’t marry. Marriage is an institution… respect it
It’s not the option now😶
Dhanush @nimble_skip
Why do we panick? Bcos we are not at peace with ourselves to deal situations in life. I suggest you to talk to your fiance that you need more time (after wedding) to be at peace with yourself and take thing slowly. That’s how we grow. You need to talk about what you are going through to your other half. All thebest🙂
I am even scared to talk to him about this, he is sweet to me and also excited for our marriage. It feels everyone’s excited but me. As the days coming near I am feeling more sad about it😶
Dhanush @nimble_skip
This is the time to get over fear and open up. Try using the right words and make sure he doesn’t feel he is at fault. Its your life and you have to take action soon. For the good.
And Thanks for your nice suggestions🧡
