I was getting attached to someone and suddenly we stopped talking just because she went home for hoildays but when she return to her hostel she didn't call me and didn't try to msg me and I was expecting a lot of things from her even I have made a plan to go there and hangout with her but she don't give a fuck I think what should I do now .

I msg her you got time for me and she reply yes 🥲but didn't call me. And not saw my msg but I can call her and talk to her but why me even I used to busy before I attach but still I use to take out my time and talk to her but now I lost my track.  And it's hurting me that I m not Able to keep myself busy and just thinking of her. 😭

Idk whether I like her or not but what I know is I m trying my best to pull myself from this zone.but still not gonna get rid in one night. And apart from this I call her twice now

Absolutely you got me bro what do I do Now? Just clam myself

Try to communicate to her if no response move pass bro no one like that is worth your efforts and energy

3am Thoughts

Its been 7 months now since my breakup, and the relationship lasted for 7 months.....if i miss her for any longer thn it would mean that the love was shorter than moving on, 
How can it be so hard when the time ive been apart from her is equal to the time i spent with her.....
Have you guyz also experienced moving on longer than the love?

Breakup

I like a girl, have committed to the cause. She was in a relationship, broke up in January, she has confessed she likes me but needs some time to move on as she was very serious in that relationship. She sees a future in us and does not want to mess it with me. I am a patient guy but have pursued her for atleast 1.5 years now. Till when should I wait? What if she goes back? What if she finds another person?

Love

I recently met this girl online and started getting feelings for her. I told her and she didn't say anything. We are on different countries and we both have some issues to work on. It seems like it could never happen something between us.
When I kept insisting about my feelings for her she suggested to take some time off and that I should only contact her again if I really want a life with her. This is confusing.

Long Distance Relationship

I yearn for her so badly that I am unable to start over, I miss her very bad, I still hope, she'll be mine someday but deep down I know our bond will never be the same, as it was when we first met.

Self Harm

Very low, extremely low. I feel like my girlfriend is over me, just because i got a job now. I feel like she will leave eventually in the name of fight things which she will come up with. It’s been 3 days since i have joined this new job. I’m trying to do my best in office and give her attention at the same time, but she likes to play with my anxieties by saying ‘ yeah i went to DB with my friend to meet my other boyfriend ‘ 
Even though it was a joke, why would she do such thing? Yesterday we were supposed to have a weekend movie night, but here we are not even talking to each other properly. I feel like she will leave me on her own delusional facts she comes up with and cheat on me or something. Because usually, whenever a fight happens, she changes her dp to her own dp on Instagram and starts following boys, when asked why is she doing this? She says that its to get my attention, really? I mean like seriously? Getting my attention by hurting me? Thank god i dont do such things like what she does to me, things would have been very different if i did any of that what she does. 

Depression

wish i had a girlfriend...but the girl i like thinks she might be aro soooo

There's a woman 
We met few months ago and we started connecting with each other. I didn't had any feelings for her and we went very slow 
We understand each other like no one else
I mean I can't describe how genuine the connection is. Everything was going perfect 
We used to hangout for 5 to 6 hours
We are talking on video call until we fell asleep.
I can see it in her eyes and she also knows it.
She took me to an amazing and a calm place yesterday evening. There was a full moon in the sky, it was an amazing place and the weather was also cold. It was a romantic moment 
I don't know how but after sometime we hugged 
And I can't express how it felt. We kissed and it felt so real and it was very passionate from both the sides. And I knew what it was and how I felt 
I expressed her my feelings, she was also happy 
And she wasn't able to believe that she can do this things again. His ex cheated her even after they decided to get married. But she told me that she can't trust again on someone coz of her past experience and she said she doesn't want to lose me but she wants sometime coz her ex is still in her mind. And from last evening things have started to change and now she's acting different. She's warning me on many things like don't be like that you'll get hurt 
Don't do that to yourself and i don't want to be the reason of you sadness etc etc.
I want her and I know it's love 
But i think I've ruined everything by expressing my feelings to her. She thinks how can you be sure it's too soon and i have not gotten over my ex yet.
I think I have fucked up everything but I didn't want to lie. I've been honest to her since day one. 
Is it my fault that I fell in love too soon ?
She's a mature women and she's very clear about things but I think I've lost my chance by expressing my feelings. I want everthing to he like it was before.
I'm fucked up. I always needed a women and I found one.
How can I be with her? 
What should I do to make things good?
How can I get her?
I don't want to loose her coz I know my feelings are real.
What should I do to not to make things worst?


Posted this last night and felt to post again!!

Do you ever feel that there is a disconnect who you were and what you are now?
I was always a funny(chandler) kind person who was very much fun to be around, not an extrovert person but just the right amount of that. I was living my life and having fun with great people-great mindset. Then the first serious relationship came, all with its ups and downs. As usual a person like me swear that whatever happens I’ll never leave this person no matter what. A surprise fact for many she was older than me, I loved and sacrificed(as I like to remember) whatever I could do for her. Moved into a new life and started thinking that this may be it…But who knew life doesn’t always work out as you plan. So after all the years being together, she broke off saying that there was nothing between us(I’ve more than thousands of hours of memories which begs to differ than this notion). Time passed and so did the pain, but damn you God!! You see a picture and you remember her plans “I’m looking for someone new to settle with maybe the ex before you who never left”. She is looking good and despite all your wisdom you feel how little can you matter in someone’s life. Didn’t you mean something…after all you lived together for so long.

Basically it boils down to one thing,“How can you be so naive to not know the person”. You had the whole world in front of you and you were this stupid to be with someone who in end pointed out how wrong you were for her.

But despite all this I remember one thing I always knew from before…Hate is really powerful. Don’t think that love is your salvation…nooooo… Channelize that hate, let it discipline you, let it tell you how foolish you were and your crying and emotions doesn’t matter at all. The only thing that matters is that hate and how can it fuel you towards something great!!

How do you overcome!

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