Aviral Singh @aviral1402
I was forced to remove all of my friends (LEGIT ALL OF MY FRIENDS) and now I’m all alone because she left me saying nothing. Is there anything I can do rn except for thinking about her constantly and weeping?
You can talk… you’ll feel better :)
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
Talk about what? I can’t stop thinking about her and weeping
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
I’m so sorry, I’m here if you wanna have a chat…
Apologize to your friends
And get back to them
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
Already done that like 3-4 times in the past and had to block them again
You should not be doing that
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
I was forced to block them again and again
Learn to find happiness alone…Trust me you will find a better person in future but this not the end….You can shop,watch movie or even go for a group trips and connect with random strangers in trips…Once you start enjoying your life alone you will know the true meaning of happiness…Probably then even if you not have a girl in life it will not make a difference…love is a beautiful feeling but do not waste for someone who doesn’t deserve you…
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
Is there any way to find happiness ALONE?
Yeah there are many stop expecting from others and start accepting yourself.
Find a hobby
Its hard coz it needs efforts. But in your case i would rather siggest you to go back to your friends than be alone. Apologize and genuinely mean it. Your ex was shit. But let that shit be in past. Mend your relations with your friends and dont give upon them.
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
I really don’t know what to say to them. I have apologised in the past and made up with them whenever my ex broke up with me but somehow she found her way back and hence I had to block my friends again. This has happened at least 5-6 times
Yes apologies genuinely to your friends and if they are your true friends they will forgive…Also never leave your friends for anyone then that person is not worth…Also viceversa leaving any person in your life never should be a condition in any relationship…Finding happiness alone it’s liberating little hard for some people…Go on random group trips, Find a hobby,Learn a new language enroll yourself offline classes, do things which you always wanted to do…Try watching any movie in theatre alone… I did it and trust me its fun when you learn to love yourself and be happy with yourself…Go for a long ride etc Their is an ocean of things which you can do…
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
They WERE my friends, they’ve already moved on. I feel ashamed just by the thought texting them. I hate myself more than my ex 💔
this is totally on you (this will be harsh but necessary for you to hear) You ignored red flags all this whole time.
1. Never let your ex back now
2. Make new friends .
Honestly i feel so angry at you for not choosing yourself over that toxic ex of yours.
Remember , her going away from your life will literally solve this mess. And if god shows mercy, you will be able to find your true friends back but dont hope on it.
I very well understand that you loved her and you still do, but she did not love you thats for sure. And she will keep eating at your mental piece . So let go of her.
pie 🥧 @sweetpie21
Firstly… Sending you love ❤… Now coming to relationships this advice is for everyone who’ll read my comment here. Please be with people who have there own life too… Have their own frds own career… Doesn’t matter male frds Or female… Relationship should be a part of ur life not your whole life that bcoz of a person you just leave everyone else… I knw love feels so good and magical but family frds these are also important as well… And this is such a toxic trait which nowadays people in relationship have… Look let me get this straight if a person wants to cheat or leave he/she will do it whether you stop them from talking to anyone or not… So just let your partner be free… Don’t put so manu restrictions and make them feel restricted … You need to swt boundaries in relationships… If u r not okay with something talk it out don’t just keep on saying yes to everything ur partner says… ♥
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
Yeah… but what am I supposed to do now? I’ve wasted my 6 years on her. Not really a waste but 💔
pie 🥧 @sweetpie21
You know loving someone is never a waste ok? But it’s high time now… Let her go… And heal ok… And by healing I mean forgiving her ( it doesn’t mean you go talk to her and say all this stuff) by forgiving I mean her to let all the bad feeling, either it be hate or anger let it out… Don’t hold onto things… The longer you hold the tighter you hold… The longer it stays and this toxic cycle will never end… So wake up… Till now you did everything for her loved her … But now love yourself do things for yourself… Bcoz in all this love relationship… You lost yourself and finding yourself should be your priority now ♥
Aviral Singh @aviral1402
Alright…Thank you so much 😞
