i want to talk to my ex knowing that he has moved on in his life and after so many years its not the same anymore but why he keeps cropping up in my dreams now a days so much and i dont want that dream to end and do not wake up to this mundane reality , how to cool my nerves and i start remembering the past and regret why did i loose him or why is he not anymore in my life as we never ended it ourselves.
I relate to this so much. It’s like when you like someone, they try to crop up in your life again and again. As soon as you’re on the verge of getting over them, they show up again and it fucks you up.
Hey. You need to realise that maybe it was the best decision for you to end things and how you have grown since you left him.
yes you Guys are right ! I cant keep him off my mind now a days ,i am worrying that in this desperation to be in touch I wont act or do somethg which I should not do .
If you feel that you shouldn’t do something, THEN YOU PROBABLY SHOULDN’T!!!
i feel miserable as i just want to text him but dont know how to start ,there is so much happened in past so many years that words will be short and i am not getting a single line to express my overwhelming emotions right now
I just want to write somethg where it will be just between us and may be hear his voice .
May be today he is a different man altogether not the one i am searching or the one I had.
I keep on logged in whole day to see whether he is online or not , dont know whether he is also desperate like me or everything has changed with time ?
Yes Ryan your observation is right .May b its the lonliness which is messing with my mind right now and making me more restless and desperate.
Have you asked yourself what needs aren’t being met at the moment? It’s easy to think that our needs can only be met by a specific person but our needs are our own. When we ask ourselves what our needs are and the answer is that we need person X to do something then we haven’t really understood what our underlying need is. Once we understand our needs it’s easier to see that it’s not tied to a specific person and we can start to look for other ways to get our needs met. An observation: you posted this under more/loneliness when there are plenty of relationship categories to choose from. Maybe that’s a hint towards what needs you have that aren’t being met at the moment.