I want to pursue a career on my choiced subject but my family is against me as the scope of it is very low. I have mass communication in my mind to go after. But my parents feel it’s an endangering career for a small town girl. And the income through it is also incomparable to the ones in government jobs. I was a science student but I don’t feel I am too good for getting a chance in government engineering colleges and my parents can’t afford me to fetch engineering from private ones. I feel low and shattered right now. I kept my proposal of getting a course on voice training mainly poetry delivering. But they gave another rejection and lots of lectures on how incapable I am.
My father literally declared that he won’t support me if I go and pursue mass communication in any college nor would he help me monetarily. I feel devastated 😞😣😣
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Please Try convincing him otherwise u ll regret
I know I am gonna regret. And I don’t even know what would be the reason I would be living if I dont choose the path I dreamt of
Are u lil bit sure u wanna choose that only?
I’m confused. I’m literally confused about everything. My speaking skills are not so great nor are my interaction. But in the past 2 years I felt like I became fascinated by it and it feels like I can do it if I am given some chances
I have searched several times many articles many things but nothing gives proper education. And since I have just passed 12 I don’t have too much to pay . So couldn’t afford actually
No… I couldn’t find lots of efficient and effectiveness there
Ikr… And here I’m totally confused. I don’t want to leave behind my dreams since I’m afraid to regret. And I can’t unthink my career suitability and stability. One wrong step and I know the downfall is gonna hit me hard. 😣😣
Then work on ur skills and move ahead
I just can’t help but cry right now. Just a few minutes ago I literally had a verbal conflict with my parents. They have strong belief that I can’t excel in anything that I have set in mind. My father is quite wise but I just wanna ask why can’t I just try for the one that I have dreamt for. In my 18 years of life I never exceled in anything. I was a bit of good as a student tho not a very good one. I literally never got something to excite me. But this is the first time I’m feeling like this. I feel broken when I think I can’t even continue this. Leave continue I haven’t even started 🥺😞
I cant really be a running machine. I can’t stop but cry while writing all these and my heart feels pierced at the moment 💔
But if not now then when ? They would get me admitted to a college nearby with English as the honours subject and push me to go for government jobs. I’m not against it. But atleast I wanted to try graduating in mass communication and improve my skills and make sure I am not dreaming a vague 🥺🥺
Ok… if that could help
Choose the carrer with m0.ney… passion etc fades away money won’t…you can always become a journalist etc later on
So should I not get a bachelor degree in mass communication?
So should I take the BA in mass communication or not?
If economic reality is the issue…go for commerce then do CA…tons of m0.ney and you can become a journalist later…wanting to be a journo is like wanting to be a plumber…ofc anyone caring about you will say don’t do it
But the scope in commerce ca is also not that great ain’t it ? Like we need to get entry in a good college which has lots of opportunities and placement. But I don’t know if I can afford that
It’s ok
Firstly decide
Good college also don’t give placement trust me build some skills
I’m confused on what skills I should develop. Like in which arena ? I thought journalism is my path. But it feels my parents won’t allow me to learn or pursue anything regarding that. I know they want me to go for a secured one but are my feelings completely valueless?? I can’t even think right now 😔😔
You don’t need college for Ca…it’s really cheap course… research a bit more
But do this only if interested please
well! always go for your dream course. Getting into engineering for 4 years without interest is torcher. Engineering can’t guarantee you government job. many engineers are unemployed. Try to make them understand.
