I want to confess one thing that I did something wrong and you people are very good in listening soo…
I have a best friend and in our high school our bonding affected much and we fight and so one day I figure out that she didn’t told her boyfriend about me and they were in a relationship for a long time and he never knew about me i kind a feel very sad about it so one day I chatted with her boyfriend from a fake account and try to figure out what kind of person he is so things got little intense as we started to chat I mean dirty talk started by him and it went on till for a week and than I stopped talking what is your opinion as I am not able to tell my bestie about this cause I don’t think she care about it much so yeah tell me how I stop thinking about it.
Firstly, sort out your thoughts. If you felt sad that your best friend didn’t tell her boyf about you then you should’ve asked her the reason. Nonetheless, do that now. ASAP. Then, tell her what you did. Tell her that you were concerned about her but then things got a bit heated up but you’ve stopped now because you realised that you were wrong. Keep in mind that she might get really angry and ask you not to talk to her. Do that. Listen to what she says. Give her that space. But firat of all, I would suggest you ask her the reason why she didn’t tell her boyfriend about you. And keep in mind that your concern about her was no reason fir you to start a fake account and talk dirty to him. If you truly are apologetic, go sqy aorry to her. And if you do not realise your mistakes, I suggest you take some time out for yourself and find out why you did what you did.
Yeah I think that should tell her but it’s so messed up that I don’t know how to start and I really consider your it’s really on face truth so I need time to think of it thank you
Did you catch feelings for her bf ?
Yes cause as I said we are in a instense chat for a week so yeah it happened
Explain your situation and apologize to your friend. If you find it difficult to speak ro her, write it down in a letter and give it to her. See how she responds to your apology
Yeah I did that on the first place but you know things are really messed up between us we didn’t had a chat in a very long time and the reason is very big behind that and that’s the reason I am not in a position to talk to her.
Bro if youre not on talking terms anyway theres no point telling her then. I suggested to you that coz you were so bothered. But if the friendship is already broke no need to pursue this. You live with the guilt inside and manage .
As I said it is a really messed scenario and she isn’t that open minded about things I don’t think she understand such thing as I will consider this and face the problem but yeah I need some time it’s really shitty