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I want a divorce from my husband. I’m tired of arguments every single day and it’s been just a year to this.

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Hey!
If you feel that even after a year of trying and working hard to make it work, he doesn’t actually care enough about this whole marriage thing. You should go ahead with the decision you are thinking of or at least put forth your idea to him. Maybe tables turn and he realizes?

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Thanks will try that but rare of him thinking maturely

He has to. He is a married person and can’t do things which leads to things like this. He needs to take action rather than taking advantage.

There could be a possibility that since he knows you aren’t going anywhere, he is also doing stuff his own way. Take that away from him for starters. Also, couple therapy may also work? Rather than making him understand try to be in charge and see how he responds. He isn’t a child who needs to be fed but needs to work if he wants to have you in life.

Anonymous

Might be you can try working out but don’t get divorced officially just stay away soo that if you feel you both can get together again soo yeah… before it affects your mental health take your step

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It’s already affected my mental health. I have started feeling that loneliness is my best friend now.

Anonymous

Yeah I understand you completely you feel like you want to detach from whole world and it is completely fine because we Create our world around that one person and when he does something like this our world is destroyed buddy just don’t let that loneliness affect you that is bad just talk to someone or only one person around you who won’t judge you and console you

I hope this adive helps you!
You are free to talk here i will respond you here!
Take care

r

if you are sure that you want a divorce, don’t think about it- just get one. the more time you take, the harder it will be for you to get a divorce.

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Thank you. I just feel so choked and lonely. My parents were against this and they were right.

a

You should try your best to avoid, decision of divorce from him. I know it would be difficult but once you get separated you might fall under more trauma. Relationship is not like a job to apply and leave. It is the most important decision of our life. Some people didn’t feel comfortable in beginning but with the passage of time when they understand each other they start living together with less anxiety. I dont think so there is any relationship in the world which is free from fight. But yes if you would still feel bad about your relationship you have the choice to break it.

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Thankyou for the advice. Will try communicating with him. But he has anger issues and I’m trying so hard for a year but nothing is working

Anonymous

Just be far away from Ur hubby for month if he misses u he will come after u and if he doesn’t he doesn’t care about you

Anonymous

Hey, i understand that you want a divorce. When I was a child, my parents used to fight a lot and they ended up getting seperated. I want you to know that it is completely okay to walk out of that marriage but why dont you give couples therapy a try??

r

See, relationships are like a tree . If one branch of them is infectious, then we cut that branch not the whole tree…
I would suggest to sort it out
Rest is Devi’s grace.

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Thanks