I want a boyfriend but I don’t want a boyfriend
like I wanna feel tbe love , the care the affection ,the attachment and I wanna give it back too, but at the same time I’m insecure about myself, my body, or him leaving me and that I’ll have to share everything with him, be vulnerable, trust him, the fact that I’ll have to be n@ked in front of someone at a point all these scare me
so idk
You want a bf, that’s the real issue. Right?
Yes I do but I don’t
So many guys aksed me out
but I rejected because I don’t wanna show anyone how broken I am , how hurt I am and how stuck I’m in my past
and no one wants a girlfriend like that full of problems and anxiety and too fat to be sexyy
Goutam @lazylad
No you’ll not have to be naked in someone…you are beautiful just the way you are. And if someone truly into you , you r ready to go…bs us insaan ka milna baaki hai☺️
yes for real
though I didn’t understand the last line.
which language is that?
Goutam @lazylad
Ahhhaa…its hindi dude🥲🥲
oh india?
great
Goutam @lazylad
Yoss
A @tripathi
You just need to know that this isn’t just your feeling. Each one of us has our insecurities, we just learn how to live with them. Once you acknowledge that everyone has their shortcomings and their scars, you won’t feel too bad about yourself.
And don’t just keep looking for a boyfriend, look for a friend who’ll understand you, make you feel special. Making a male friend is a lot more important before you meet your love. Try opening up to people and try to make them friends. Who knows, maybe you’ll find your soulmate in one of them.
well
a very positive way to look at things
thanks!
Same girl☹️.
Girl
Trust issues. If someone loves me I need to know why, even though I know there is no definite answer and even after that I doubt whether the relationship is going to last, whether he will fall for someone else, or just asking me out to make fun of me or win some bet and I’m not conventionally beautiful so I’m also insecure about looks.
i constantly think the same
Hey, How are you doing now? and How is life in large?