I used to like a guy back in scul but he wasn't ready at that time.  Then afterwards he was ready but didn't tell but used to chat once a month then after that when I asked him . He said he has different priorities right now n doesn't want that thing . Then I told him alot of things but apologized after 2 years n now we're friends but my feelings came back n I told him I've been liking him since 9 years.  He's shocked . He doesn't even know me much . We were in same standard for once.  What he wants , he's not clear with it.  I don't know what to do.  Plus he's into studies n all v much .

Boyfriend

Hii 
A year back I told my parents about my boyfriend and they did not agree to it .
They had their valid reasons and I was convinced by their reasons.
I also love him 
I can give him up for my parents 
But I don't know if I can ever think about another man in my life .
My parents are already searching for a guy and I don't know what to do 
I'm confused bcos each time I feel like choosing the other one .
Idk Whether to hold on to him or listen to my parents bcos they they don't like it .
I love both of them 
And in the process of choosing between this 
I feel very guilty on whichever decision am trying to make .



Time

Hey ya all should I be sending my ex flower/gifts cause we just started talking again after a long while?

Hyyy.....i am in relationship of 5years he is kindoff boring but kk fyn he is not into flirtationship i have certain needs which i am not getting from him but the thing is now i got a new guy who is loving me from past 3years but he is into many girls and i am not into him or anything like that but he is kindoff fulfilling my dreams which i wanted from my guy .......my guy is overly possessive abt him which is making me more attracted to that guy i don't know what to do but at some peak time i am feeling i wanna drop this thing and just be with my boyfriend and sometimes i am feeling guilty tooooooooo i don't know why  all i need is my boyfriend i love him but i dont know how to get rid of this lover boy

Relationships

Let's talk suggestions.

I will take a poll, and whatever the result, will be my decision.


My bf recently broke up with me because he can't let go of my past, which he knew about since the beginning.

The breakup was really ugly and embarassing because he used foul language called me all kinds of names and disrespected me in general.

To be completely honest, we were together once, he broke up with me for someone else, 2years went by, and i got involved with his close friend after 2 years of us breaking up. The close friend and I didn't work out so we ended things.


Then my bf and i reconnected, and I told him about my involvement with his friend. And he said his love for me is greater than any of this.

We were together for quite some time, were about to get married and families were involved, and now he ended things with me just like that.

I don't know how to make the families understand and I don't know what to do?


Should I go back to him and try one last time or should I just move on and get married to whoever my parents choose for me?



Breakup

I'm feeling incredibly sad most of the time these days. I'll explain why and I'll start at the very beginning. I went on an exchange for 6 months from August until February and met the most amazing people. I've bonded with most of them and they feel as close as family. I've been back quite a while and I was doing fine with not being with them. Now we went on a 16 day vacation with a few people, one of them being the crush I had. I lost most of my feelings in the time of not seeing this person. When I saw him on the vacation, my feelings were all back immediately. I decided it would be best not to say anything, not to ruin our friendship, just like I had done before. After a few days I felt like he returned the same feelings, so I told him about mine. He told me he reciprocated these feelings. He was very specific about not wanting a relationship though. He still has to process some stuff that has happened in the past and doesn't want to build a relationship on him not feeling up to that. I understood. We still cuddled every day for 7 days straight. One day we even kissed very passionately and he had to stop, because he was getting a little bit too excited and he didn't want to take it further to lead me on. Even though he was very clear telling me he didn't want a relationship, I'm stilling having problems now with accepting that. He has multiple times talked about how he sees out future and that when we do get together eventually what he would do and how that would work with us living in different countries, etc. It makes me so confused about what he wants from me. He tells me he wants me to move on and not think about him like that and that I should have someone else if I would want to, but on the other hand I feel like there is this expectation he has where whenever he figures out his life and the trouble in his past I will be there waiting for him. And if that is what he wants, me waiting for him, I'm fine with that. But now I don't know and that makes me more confused and more sad. But I feel like I should know, because he has said multiple times he wants me to move on and that there is not really space in his life for me now. 

Things that also confuse me is while we were cuddling, him saying things like: "for now, you are mine and only mine." And I know he meant I was his for only that week, but that fucks with my mind. I'm not sure whether I should talk about it with him and explain that even though he told me he doesn't want a relationship I still have expectations, because of things like this that he said. 

Yesterday, I asked my partner if he is religious or not, and he told me he's 50% religious. I'm not a religious person. Since I stayed in a boarding school and had a liberal upbringing, I was never asked to follow any religious ceremonies. And so I have never been bothered. But my partner wants me to follow all the religious ceremonies after our wedding.

Since I know I can try to follow some, but not being a religious person it's difficult to follow all. I wanted to discuss this with him and so told is it so necessary and he told it's been since ages and that's what is expected from a daughter in law. I've been perplexed after listening to such words.

I did ask him if we leave this for now and think on this later. It might be that his parents will be ok. Then he told me that he won't be talking to his parents on this as it's been like this and there is nothing wrong.

However after the discussion he wants us to end our communication if I can't agree as this will simply result in fight.

Am I wrong not being religious or shouldn't I discuss this and just follow all the rituals?

He's not been talking to me and I don't feel it right to end the relationship just for this topic. But also I'm not sure what my future would be like. Please help

Confusion

Hello everyone this is a bit of a silly post so you can move on but I was just needing some help with something. So at the start of the year, I did this sport camp for three days and I met this boy there. He was rly sweet and he asked me out but I said no because we live 4 hours away from each other. lately tho I've been missing him so I text him. He hasn't responded for 3 days. What should I do?

Love

I am feeling very low for sonetime now. Im having some relationship issues. I love him and he does too, its just he cant give me time. I dont feel like im his priority. He just doesnt have time for me. All he thinks about is his friends and i just constantly feel like a second option to him and i just wanna feel that way anymore. I am tired of feeling this way. I really dont know what to do , how to tell him. 

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