I used to buy 5rs tiger biscuits packet instead of parle G ,just because it had more quantity of biscuits... ever did this in childhood? 

3am Thoughts

I don't understand why no girls like me? 
Ok I may not be soo handsome but I have a pure heart. I will always give love.  I respect them. I have enough money.  I give time and also understand them very well. But these all things doesn't matter to those all girls.  They only need handsome boys, where they are good or bad, have money or not,  want to have only physical relationship doesn't matter. 
And I question to myself everyday.  WHY ? WHY NOT ME? It seems useless but still feels.  

Depression

I am 25 year old ,i completed b.sc with low marks only 51 % ,I hve no job and no other expirence ,i try to crack competitive exams ,but due to high competition it is very difficult to me i am average below student ,i donot know what to do next need a guidance which help me to get job and my future.

Anxiety

Anybody who believes in reincarnation?????

Dreams

i do like boys but i do like girls too... idk if i am straight or bi or lesbo idk


Confusion

HAVE YOU EVER SAID?
" I'm my own expert advisor ?"

I guess most of us have said this... right?

But do you really seek advise from yourself?
Lets see....


We try to seek solution of our doubts & problems from everyone we could possibly ask and everywhere we could possibly search but EXCEPT 'in ourselves!

Because we don't want to be all by ourselves...
AND WHY IS IT SO?

•"We are scared to sit alone"-we always tend to look for least 1 person to be with because we feel empty inside...
•"We are scared to spent time with ourselves"- neither we were taught to be happy in our own company and nor we have thought to give it a try...
•"We are scared to talk to ourselves"-we think that the other person could possibly give us a better advise, even though we know the situation better because We don't trust ourselves...
• "We are scared to reason and unreason with ourselves"- it feels like we are putting ourself at a pedestal and holding accountable (while we would be satisfied if other person does the same)...

Even though we say I'm an expert advisor for myself but, in reality, not most of us seek our own advise when it comes to, we think that 1 other person out there could possibly take a better decision for us rather than ourselves because we haven't build that connection of trusting our insticts and decision making power might be due to lack of confidence or poor decision making in the past..

Let's break this pattern of Self-Doubting and start taking accountability of our own decisions because no one can know us better than OURSELVES.
Solutions to all of our doubts and problems lies within US.

NOW. Will you be your oWn expert advisor?

Compassion

I’m just feeling really sad and lonely right now. 

I ended a relationship I had for 3 years. My partner was my best friend. Everything you know. She just lacked ambition and stayed at home with her parents and was comfortable doing that in her 30s. Me, I’m on my own and figuring things out and I felt it was a mismatch. 

She is moving on okay and honestly that’s good for her. 

I just feel a lot of pain and shock because she was my person and now she’s not here. I wish she had a desire to change but I know I can’t change people or control them so I need to let it go. I just don’t know if I’ll find someone who…I felt comfortable to talk to and be with like her ever again. 

I did recently date someone new. I torched that too. 

2 months of dating and we just couldn’t get right. She’s gone as well now and of my own fault to a certain degree. 

I think it just hurts because it feels like women I thought loved and cared about me, just no longer do. Or maybe they don’t love and care the way I do. 

I want them to reach out. Or I want them to say, hey, this is special and not worth losing. Let’s figure it out. 

But it’s not happening, so I just have to deal with the hurt and heal. It is a lot though. First time in my life I had so much pain from losing people. 

Hey guys so I want to know your opinion. 
There was a person in my life that I did everything for that I gave every chance I could, I was in love with him, I even tried staying friends with him but in the end he blamed me for things that I never did. He broke my heart again and again. So now I feel I hate him. Do you think its ok to hate someone who deserves that hate. I don't mean the hate in which you try to hurt that person. I mean the hate that just keeps you away from that person, that makes you never wanna see his face ever again. I think that if I loved him when he didn't deserve it then there is nothing wrong in hating him when he truly deserves it.

Life

i need mental peace..how do i escape reality for some time...what's your escape?

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