I think “No means no” should be changed to “Only yes means yes” because and “umm”, “maybe” and “hmmmmm” don’t count as consent.

I just hope people understand this in a much better speed.

Women Empowerment

Its bit frustrating and how come these indian parents always make their children pointing wrong?!!!



Exhausted

I m feeling so depressed rn someone is on my mind 24*7 its been 1.3 years we know each other online still he dont share his number with me and saved my number in his phone...i m mad for him but he hadn't msg me from last 4 days every morng i wake up and check for his msg..one week before he said ki uske mob ka daily data was over so he recharges his phone and i asked mujhse baate krne ke liye recharge kiya and he said yes abb jyada bhaw mt khane lg jana or maine bye bola to bolta h rechrge kiya h wo waste hojaega p*rn send kru to i think usne p*rn dekhne ya kisi or se baat krne ke liye kiya hoga kyuki wo mujhse 4-5 din bina msg kiye reh jata h to mujhe nii lgta wo mujhe itna imp. Smjhta hoga ki paise na rehte hue  mob. Me mere liye recharge krke mujhse baate kre or ek baar usne mujhse paise bhi mange the usko need thi to but maine nhi diye to mujhe smjh nii aarha ki wo actually chahta kya h mujhe kbhi kbhi dr lgta h ki mujhe use to nii kr rha mere sath tympass to nii kr rha isliye mai use block krdi thi but phir unblock krne pr uska msg aana start hojata h emotional baate or aaise dikhata h jaise use frk pda mere block krne pe  or  puchta h ki mai kisi or se to nii baat kr rhi itni der online kaha rehti hu kisi or se baat krne ko mna krta h to i  m confused ki wo actually chahta kya h

3am Thoughts

I wanna be alone for ever and have people stop caring 

Mental Health

After a long shift I've realized there are 2 types of elderly people. The first kind you want to hug and love on and would do anything for. The second kind you want to kick down the stairs. 

Job Dissatisfaction

My nephew was born with celiac disease and for the longest time we didn't know. We knew something was wrong but it never occurred to us that he could be allergic to gluten. In addition he is also lactose intolerant and being indians the elders always pushed him to have a lot of milk. Poor thing went through so much pain and suffering before we figured out what was up with him. He's doing better now so it's okay.

Physical Health

I am hating everything around. Sometimes I feel on cloud 9 and suddenly nothing makes sense. Is this normal?

Lonely

Getting bored

Hello everyone,

Almost a year ago I came to this site to get advice on dating and sharing my fears about that. Back than I was in a very dark place I just wanted it to end at in point but life is nice sometimes and I met a girl which changed everything we both were in a dark place and help each other out of there. That was over 9 months ago and now we’re officially in a relationship since 5 months. We had our ups and downs but we always managed to work on it and get everything back on track. 

I‘m happier than ever but sometimes I feel like I have no energy left after seeing her all weekend and I just wanna have a gaming session or do some work at home. Sometimes I stay awake till 4 in the morning just to satisfy this need. I feel really weird about that I am normally really in control of myself I quit smoking without any problems and also change to a strict diet without any problems my discipline is good I would say. But this time I just can’t control myself I pretty much do it every Sunday when I get home till now it hasn’t effect anything but I wanna get a better job soon and I need all my energy for that since I quit school and I’m very afraid to go back and lern something in theory and not by doing it.

I know my girlfriend I will support me no matter what I wanna do but I’m afraid that I will not give her enough time which is always a problem she is always comparing us to her sister and her boyfriend they see each other all week because they are both students. I only have time on weekends since I work 10 - 12 hours a day.

What should I do I am really confused about this whole thing I never was in a relationship and I’m at my wit‘s end. 

Thanks for reading

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