i think my bf only has me as some “trophy” he doesn’t really show much affection towards me unless it’s in bed or when it comes to “showing me off” maybe i’m wrong and he does love me but i don’t feel it. his friends has approached me and told me he noticed this and that he could treat me better and stuff like that i got defensive but he might be right and i’m so confused
Have you tried telling him how you feel?
i’ve tried to bring it up like i mentioned that maybe we should do some romantic couple things like just the two of us but he said he was busy and we could talk about it later and whenever i tell him i feel isolated from him he reacts my sleeping with me.
*by sleeping with me
May be to him physically intimacy also refills emotional intimacy, but it might not be same for you. That’s why try and tell him exactly what you require. May he instead of suggesting him to do romantic things, you initiate and plan something — may be a movie date, exchange of letters, some picnic. I think you both could try exploring each other’s love language, it’ll be easier.
maybe if he’s not always too busy but thanks