I think my bf of 3 years is going to leave me because his father is not agreeing to our marriage as I am a divorcee. He has been trying to convince for more than a year but now his father is saying that he will die due to stress… I don’t want anything bad to happen to anyone but I think I’ll be no where as I wasted 3 good years believing he will marry me. I don’t know how will I cope with this… I’ll prefer death over this pain
roja sandimani @roja_sandi...
Ig uh r strong one, as uh r already divorcee n coped with that situation n moved till here, im sure uh will cop with this too n will move on and make sure uh have a great independent life ahead good luck
My parents got me divorced bcoz I was being harassed for dowry. I didn’t love that person and was with him for less than 2 months. Here I have invested myself completely for 3 years… I love him and I thought he loved me too… he still says he does but can’t leave his family. He isn’t bad like my ex who abused my verbally physically. I don’t understand what to do
roja sandimani @roja_sandi...
It’s ur choice , whether to leave the regret or enjoy the remaining days of ur life. if i was in ur place I would definitely enjoy my remaining days, I wouldn’t sit n stress myself out for the topic which uh r aren’t sure
You need to focus on yourself. Love is great. But you’re a talented and independent woman. You don’t NEED him to survive. You WANT him. I hope you realise that someone who loves you and can’t live without you will do anything to be with you. He doesn’t want to leave his family. And he should not. Nor should you expect him to. But if after ending this relationship he goes ahead and marries someone else because his parents said so then I’m sorry you wasted these 3 years on a man like him too.
I would suggest you go to his parents with him if he’s okay with it and talk to them. Explain to them. Every parent wants one thing and that’s to see their child happy. If they like you but have a problem with the divorce part just talk to them. Speak with your heart. Don’t have any regrets before you end this relationship.
Thank you… I will do this and hope for a miracle. 🙏🏼
Also know this one thing. YOU WILL BE FINE no matter what. You will do great in life and you will be happy.
It’s tough. But you will. Just continue to do the things you love.
