I think I understand why my dad cheated on my mom now. No I am never going to support what he did, it wasn’t right. I have spent all these years hating him for this but yk as I grow up I feel more like my dad in terms of the loneliness he might have felt. Yk when you have been alone all these years, you crave love and care … having problematic parents, an arranged marriage and no meaningful friendships must have hurt him too like they hurt me right now. He must have bottled up all these emotions idk. But when you are in a situation where you never got that love, you crave for it and accept whatever little love comes your way. He must have felt truly loved or cared for in that moment when he cheated, it is wrong but I can understand why
its true we cant love everyone thats been with us just bcoz d circumstances made us to live under d same roof
I am never going to support or justify what he did to anyone else. But I said I can understand what must have gone through his head when he did that. I was the one who told mom about how he was not good for her bcz I had seen him cheating on her. I have spent these years hating him with so much bottled up anger and resentment. He just didn’t hurt her by cheating on her, we also did not get his attention or care as a dad because he left us. But I can see he was lonely and I think he felt cared for in that moment. That’s it.
I am totally agreed with you … because love is so imp in our life as per my thinking 😞😞😞
