I think I have a crush on one of my friends who I have known for years (and who has been outed as queer/lesbian for a while now) and I’m not sure if a have a crush on them or if it’s something ?else??(I never really thought of them in that way before) and today they invited me to a party at their house on Wednesday. So what could I do to be more clear about how I feel about them?/srry if my English is bad/
R u clear about ur orientation ?
That’s a hard question bc i like to refer to myself as queer and nothing more bc I’m not just attracted to one gender but on the other hand have i never felt this way about a person of the same sex
like its totally normal to like someone or having crush if u like them as friend its different or in other way u ll get to know by the following ways this r the things u do and feel when u have a crush on someone!
You start doing weird things with your hair. Totally natural
Your life revolves around them
You’ve started stalking them online
You’ll try to spot them in every waking moment
You try your best to bump into them
you’ll start hallucinating about them
You make lots of excuses to talk to them
You smile too much.
I do all this stuff when I have a crush on someone tbh
ig this r the same for everyone but none had a crush on me 😭 it’s ok I don’t care!
😤 and be honest with ur feeling and if u think u wanna confess u can do that but be careful they might not like it so just do it when u think they also like u or if they r chill about u all this stuff…and its normal to have crush on someone like everyone do so…ya that’s ittt hope it helps u wishing u good luck and u have to visit that party bro enjoy!
