I started getting feelings for my bestfriend and now another girl confessed that she has feelings for him. He neither said no or said yes to her. He knows that even I have feelings and at recent times weβve shared intimate moments but all of a sudden he is saying that weβll go back to being just friends. Anyone can help me?
So what you want now
The problem is he has commitment issues so he doesnβt want me to get attached with him. I just want him to love me back.
U canβt make anyone to love you back i tried too but doesnβt work gurl
Is he committed ?
If not than you should talk him and let clear and tell what you feel for him
Mayank @_mayank__
Thatβs why i donβt do friendship with girls
Why, Coz girls are stupid?
Mayank @_mayank__
No, what if she started developing feelings for me, btw girls are smart with me
Move on, itβs better you stay away from him, coz even if u stay as friends sometimes it might just get awkward.
Okay, thank you for your thoughts.
U should move on with your feelings , I know is hard but u can do it.
Do your life with normally and depends on you if u wanna suffer being his friend then that is my advice.
Do one thing avoid him first then
Act like you have got someone who is your safe place and then get along with distancing yourself
Might be he was just messing up with your feelings
If he chases you then understand π
You are a girl and he is your bestfriend then you must know his weakness. Make him fall in love with you and as he didnβt said yes to another girl and they didnβt had shared the intimated . Use his weakness and trap him if you donβt want to lose him . If he say yes to that girl , your bestfriend will never become your boyfriend except if you break their relationship