I sometimes feel like my boyfriend does need me as much as i need him , i knw he loves me but still there's this thing always crosses my mind , did he loved his ex more than me , he did crazy things for her but i have never seen that crazy side of his with me....when i overthink about all this it hurtsss me so much 

Well, the crazy things made her his ex ultimately. Such things can hurt some people too much that they become apprehensive. When u commit to someone whole-heartedly and then they throw it away. But at the same time, if u think the vibe is not right then u should break up 😬

The most important thing you should do it to communicate with your boyfriend, you can only solve issues by trusting one another and talking whenever you have things that are not clear. Try to start the conversation by pointing the events that happened and how they made him feel. Don't throw blames at anyone, you just need a calm and honest talk. I'm sure things will turn out well!

3am Thoughts

New to this app. this boy and i are in love is what i think. he is my neighbor and we go to the same yg. and we used to hang out every day. my parents love him and his mom used to love me. well recently since me and this boy have been growing closer his mom stopped us from hanging out at all. we only see each other on Sunday’s and Thursdays from events we both go to. we text all day but my parents have tried talking to her and she is just ignoring them. it’s making me feel like something’s wrong with me and i’m constantly overthinking it. me and his mom used to be so close like she texted me and asked how i was doing everyday etc. i just don’t know what to do.. any advice?

Overthinking

I had this bf and I really liked him... Well, I still do a little. We broke up because he moved and it was kind of weird dating from long distance. We were really close and goofy around each other but when he moved... Things started changing. Well, I did expect things to change but not this much. He started ignoring me and whenever I say hi or try to talk to him, he would answer a little bit then he would just start ignoring me. Our conversations became dull like the type you have with a friend you are not that close to. I know he's found a new person(he didn't tell me but it seems like it) and I'm happy for him and all, but I thought that we could still be friends like the way we were before the whole dating stuff. He was my first bf so I wasn't really an expert in knowing the dos and don'ts in a relationship. I know I made some mistakes I regret and now I feel like he hates me now. By mistakes I mean: I kind of told all my close friends that we were dating when I was supposed to keep it a secret. But I was soo excited that I finally got my first bf and normally I can keep a secret but this one was hard for me to keep. We don't talk anymore and now it feels like we are total strangers and I wish he would just talk to me. I feel really hurt and I keep thinking about it every day and I hate it. It really hurts knowing that I think about him every day and he doesn't even think about me once(Well I think he doesn't). It really sucks and hurts... I need help

Boyfriend

How to get over someone you like a lott.you are not in a relationship but still you can’t stop thinking about them..

i still miss him. everyday it gets worse and i just wanna know when will it end. i was with her today ofc bc she’s my best friend and my constant thoughts were “it’s so obvious now why everyone loves her more.” she’s so sweet and kind. i love her so much, she’s always been there for me. just sometimes i wonder, why does everyone have to pick her i mean, i get that she’s better than me but i just want one chance. just one. to prove who i actually am and to prove that i can be as good as her sometimes. people just need to give me time. and him, he gave me time, i told him my feelings. he understood my feelings completely and he still chose to leave. if i’m that bad why didn’t he tell me first. i know i need to let go of him but i just can’t and i don’t know why. i’m so scared to love or trust anyone now because of him so why can’t i let him go? why haven’t my feelings changed? i wish i wasn’t scared to love or trust people because, if i could just love someone that wasn’t him just for two seconds, then maybe. just maybe. i’ll be able to feel some real feelings. i’ve lost myself completely it’s like when i look in the mirror im not looking at a person, it’s like i’m looking at an empty shell that’s just been evacuated or something. i don’t know who i am anymore. 

How do you feel about your ex now vs the time you just broke up??

I can't understand this person(he is my online friend). If anyone can help me here? 
Today when I said bye I am disturbed I want break, he was like you matter to me, I count on you and was apolozing if anything happened. Like he don't understand? when someone is disturbed(he knows by my mental health is disturbed) don't bother them. 
One day he is good, talking to me coz he likes to talk, he is nice person but don't care about how I feel sometimes as he is annoying too, sometimes ignored me too. He is enthusiast person he said something on call few days back maybe he don't remember, but it creeped me and hurted. 
Is it because of loneliness guys? Or what?


Friends

Basically fighting with many on going thoughts right now, its all about a guy. I meet a guy recently because of my bestfriend, basically she is my online bestfriend and ofc she has irl friends too so there is this guy her boy bestfriend who she made me meet online only so we can be along and start a relationship but me and him is like we started getting along fall for each other too started relationship but it ended in 2-3 days. Its because he is like i cant be in relationship with you its not gonna work between us there is no us. I accepted we became close friends again but with benefits like we doing stuffs online only and now he and me both are addicted to each other we plan on meeting doing kiss and all those sinful stuffs but wont be in relationship. The fact he said me i am the first girl who does this to him i love him alot not as friends but more i am ready to see future with him too but he isnt ready. The fact he says he gonna take care of me, love me, cherish me and i am his and he is mine but its like he asked me if i am willing to give whole of myself to him or not i said yep all to him and again he asked me are you willing to be whole mine even when i am not whole yours? I still said yes because i said i love him alot i cant move back from him thats somwthing i can never imagine so yeah thats my vent. And now i am so obsessed that i am lacking in my studies more likely distraction tho i am trying my best to control but still i am, i dont know what i should do and all. 

Addiction

Hello folks....!
Another day with other weird feelings....I had a crush on a boy from the past year.... Initially I saw his pic on social media and I felt a connection with him without even knowing a single thing about him not even his name I started simping him...When our offline uni started I saw him on the campus, I felt the whole bunch of butterflies in my stomach...then the very next day he came to the class I got to know that we are in the same section....Then as I started to know him he has all the qualities I have been looking for all these years...I do simp him, he motivates me by his actions....I told him that he was my crush and he is not now....so he was okay with it....And his best friend is in love with him( single side maybe) but I do feel jealous of her....I tried a lot to overcome all this, while still trying but I think I am hurting myself from doing this ...He had a pretty bad break up with his ex...So he doesn't trust anyone so easily....I started talking to him and we just started to become friends....and at that moment one of my classmates who is obsessed with him and is jealous of him....went to him and back bitched about me....Now again it is too weird between us....I don't know what she said to him but ya she totally messed up things in my life... He even insults me in front of the whole classroom but I don't say anything because I seriously feel for this guy idk why....And It's hard for me to overcome all of this...m

Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts