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Raahgir @raahgir

I shared a bond with someone. I fell in love. Crazy love to be honest. He wasn’t ready for a relationship but with time and seeing my efforts he melted and we came in a relationship. Things went will in the beginning for sometime but I didn’t feel that I’m being accepted whole hearted( maybe because of his bad past and relationship). I felt I was doing more efforts. With time I started getting angry and short tempered with made me to argue with him and over expecting. He felt as if we’re not working out as a couple. All of it made him feel pressurised and he said he’s not being able to keep me happy. He said nor he’s happy because he feels pressurised. Now we have broken up but still talk. I really want him in my life but he has other priorities in life as well right now. He left me for my happiness :( I love him a lot
What should I do now? What should my bond be with him? Is there a chance or is it all over?

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Mohammed @abdulaziz33

You should try talking about how you feel to him and probably there could be a chance

Raahgir @raahgir

I have tried. But he says he can’t do more than this. He says we can be friends

Mohammed @abdulaziz33

Then you should let time take its course

As you name suggests

Raaho mein musafir milte hai , Magar har koi humsafar nahi hota

Raahgir @raahgir

DEEP LINE🥺

Mohammed @abdulaziz33

Thank you

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Ujjwal @ujjwals

Don’t pressure him, keep it loose. Have patience and talk very rare , focus on your buildup and watching you growing he might come to you but after doing this much effort to build yourself you will loose interest in him 😂

Raahgir @raahgir

Okay I will try :(

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Anonymous

Better you stay away from him its best for you feelings would fade away eventually just be happy with all the good you have around you give less thoughts to grief…!

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Anonymous

You want your feelings to fade away easily without any suffering or mental breakdown you should avoid it…
If you keep the touch feellings will grow on eventually and if he’s not gonna hold onto you there’s no point having feelings for a person who isn’t worth of your love

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Anonymous

I know it’s hard to stop thinking about someone we love. Receiving messages from such a person becomes too overwhelming and it’s hard to control oneself from not replying. However, I will suggest you ignore his messages. If it’s possible, switch off the notification of the app. And you can even try uninstalling the messaging app itself.
And if at all you believe that there is still some chance than reply to him in a casual manner but not very often. Like be spontaneous in replying for 2-3 days then ghost him for the next few days. Then repeat the process (if you its the right thing to do). The choice is ultimately yours.

Raahgir @raahgir

It’s very hard to resist from talking. But I’ll surely keep in mind what you adviced.

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Raahgir @raahgir

Okay will try :(

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