I recently quit my job. But my parents want me to join back in the same job because according to them “they’re letting me stay with them because I’m giving them money” But seriously I wanted to stay alone and it’s not like they are in a position they can survive only with my money, as they had saved up a lot and told me too that “Don’t think I need your money to carry on with my life”. When I told them I quit because I didn’t like the job, they were like job back and keep working however you want to do before. TBH I want to leave this house , because I never felt I had freedom and they have my card and the otp linked to their phone, so I have no access to my own money. I really want to leave this house, I want to know how. I can get another job and leave, but staying in this negative had affected me in many ways, I couldn’t concentrate well and they used to keep saying I won’t do well in life. I want to move away and start my new life away from the childhood trauma and abuse. I became a bit fine only after recent therapy. :(
Why did you let all of this happen? Not having access to your own earning? You know you have rights too?
yeah I should have been courageous and asked. They had been really abusive from young and had even asked me to get out of the house seriously when I was still a kid. I tried asking for my card and personal belongings but they denied each time. I tried moving out before, but I thought I shouldn’t go without telling them
That’s why I want to be brave now and move out. But I still don’t know how
I am sorry to hear about it but you are earning and you are capable and you can be independent. If they are doing all of it for their personal benefit atleast it should be fair. They didnt give you birth to own you all their life. I am not trying to be mean here but i hope you understand
Yeah I should think it through thanks for saying these