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Anonymous

I recently had a crush on a significantly older guy I met online. I have no dating experience at all. I really like the fact that we are able to talk about random things. Though I know for a fact that he doesn’t like me because he’s really good looking, I can’t help but wait for his messages.
It’s causing an ache in my heart but I can’t let him go.

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Anonymous

If u don’t mind how old are you

Juicy Mander @jm456

I’m 18

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Anonymous

U still in teenage so u find someone who really love u, so let him go and enjoy ur clg days & make some friends 😊

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Anonymous

Trust me and let him go. Best for him even better for you. I wish I had let go when it was necessary, instead got myself attached and I’m still hurtin, even after 2 years(be scared of this, very scared). It was exactly the same in my case except I am a guy and she was a woman.
Even if you cannot, just try to let him go and if you fail don’t at least get yourself attached. Don’t let his delayed texts or his actions affect your mood in any way. Stay detached stay happy

Juicy Mander @jm456

I think i just got attached already. I don’t have a lot of friends or any partners before, so I just like how nice he is to me. He lives in a different country and we can’t talk a lot. But he does say that he wishes that we can talk more. It’s just confusing me

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Anonymous

Please don’t fall for it. This is even worse he lives in a different at least when I met mine we lived in the same country except different states. It’ll eat you up inside girl, just don’t if things don’t work out you’ll be stuck and possible waste 2 years of your life like me hoping hoping and hoping that someday they’ll text, but the text won’t come. JUST DO NOT GET ATTACHED, start detaching and is he from India?

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Anonymous

He might even be married who knows. Just stay safe. 18 to 24 is the most crucial age of your life, don’t waste it on someone who might not be even worth your time. I was 17(now I’m 21) when I met her and in almost 9 months I couldn’t spend a day without her. I had to know whether she’s there in my life or not everyday. I still miss her, but she’s all happy and probably married too. She might even have a baby soon, who knows. And take this as a terrifying news yourself. Yes, I’m here to scare you so that you won’t make the same mistakes I did. Nobody gives a f about anyone, remember that

Juicy Mander @jm456

Nope, he’s from the US

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Anonymous

And do you see any way you could meet him? If no then take care of the things that should be a priority right now. These things hurt, khudko kosoge kuch saalo baad

Juicy Mander @jm456

I understand that and I’m gonna try not to prioritize him too much. I guess I just enjoy his company because he’s really nice to me. But I understand what you mean.

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Anonymous

Yes please. Just get this, if its meant to be nobody can take it away from you. Live by this thought and stay detached

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Anonymous

How do u both look

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How do u both look

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Anonymous

Are you serious? I mean you have no experience???

Don’t feel under pressure because of looks
A good guy can love you for your real face

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Anonymous

As a guy who has loads of experience in online dating, I would like to tell you that people will only show you the good side of theirs on such platforms. Moreover, you can’t trust men online.
I’m not ruling out your conversation on these criterion but just making you aware of the same.
Don’t text him, if he’s keen, he will text you.

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