I recently had a crush on a significantly older guy I met online. I have no dating experience at all. I really like the fact that we are able to talk about random things. Though I know for a fact that he doesnāt like me because heās really good looking, I canāt help but wait for his messages.
Itās causing an ache in my heart but I canāt let him go.
If u donāt mind how old are you
Juicy Mander @jm456
Iām 18
U still in teenage so u find someone who really love u, so let him go and enjoy ur clg days & make some friends š
Trust me and let him go. Best for him even better for you. I wish I had let go when it was necessary, instead got myself attached and Iām still hurtin, even after 2 years(be scared of this, very scared). It was exactly the same in my case except I am a guy and she was a woman.
Even if you cannot, just try to let him go and if you fail donāt at least get yourself attached. Donāt let his delayed texts or his actions affect your mood in any way. Stay detached stay happy
Juicy Mander @jm456
I think i just got attached already. I donāt have a lot of friends or any partners before, so I just like how nice he is to me. He lives in a different country and we canāt talk a lot. But he does say that he wishes that we can talk more. Itās just confusing me
Please donāt fall for it. This is even worse he lives in a different at least when I met mine we lived in the same country except different states. Itāll eat you up inside girl, just donāt if things donāt work out youāll be stuck and possible waste 2 years of your life like me hoping hoping and hoping that someday theyāll text, but the text wonāt come. JUST DO NOT GET ATTACHED, start detaching and is he from India?
He might even be married who knows. Just stay safe. 18 to 24 is the most crucial age of your life, donāt waste it on someone who might not be even worth your time. I was 17(now Iām 21) when I met her and in almost 9 months I couldnāt spend a day without her. I had to know whether sheās there in my life or not everyday. I still miss her, but sheās all happy and probably married too. She might even have a baby soon, who knows. And take this as a terrifying news yourself. Yes, Iām here to scare you so that you wonāt make the same mistakes I did. Nobody gives a f about anyone, remember that
Juicy Mander @jm456
Nope, heās from the US
And do you see any way you could meet him? If no then take care of the things that should be a priority right now. These things hurt, khudko kosoge kuch saalo baad
Juicy Mander @jm456
I understand that and Iām gonna try not to prioritize him too much. I guess I just enjoy his company because heās really nice to me. But I understand what you mean.
Yes please. Just get this, if its meant to be nobody can take it away from you. Live by this thought and stay detached
How do u both look
How do u both look
Are you serious? I mean you have no experience???
Donāt feel under pressure because of looks
A good guy can love you for your real face
As a guy who has loads of experience in online dating, I would like to tell you that people will only show you the good side of theirs on such platforms. Moreover, you canāt trust men online.
Iām not ruling out your conversation on these criterion but just making you aware of the same.
Donāt text him, if heās keen, he will text you.
