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Anonymous

i recently got a match the boy is working in Australia. We spoke through video call and his parents visited my home too. The boys texted me and i too responded so that i can have an idea of what he is. So the conversation is good till yesterday morning. All of a sudden he wrote me a message saying he has visa issues so regarding that. Don’t he know earlier while talking to me that he has such issues or how come on a very sudden note he is raising such issues. He proposed me and we talked about kids and future too. I dont know what has got into him. Yesterday morning i had 10 calls in the morning before me waking up. I spoke with him then he is very cool like how he used to be. In the evening he didnt respond to my messages when asked are u busy he said yes. After sometime he has sent me such texts. I took some time and asked him so what have u decided now and if there are any issues we can sort it out. Think twice and let me know your decision. He has seen my texts but didnt reply.
Who has given him the right to play with my emotions? I am really pissed off.

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Anonymous

Relationships are not born all of a sudden. It takes a while to get to know someone. Since you are searching on a Match I feel that just by initial few talks you may not know the person completely. It may spoil your emotions, but remember it is temporary. I would suggest you to wait for sometime because it is too early to judge someone, that too in this digital world. Take some time, get busy doing thinks which you like and try to distract your attention towards other happy things. Please don’t take decisions in hurry.😊

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Anonymous

yes I get it but I didn’t show him any of my emotions to him. Even when he said I love you I am like ok thanks lets wait till everything is done from our parents end too. I just tried to know the person to some extent so I spoke with him. I think rather than talking after marriage its not harm speaking to the boy your opinions and all. I accept we don’t know the person just by few talks but once you gave them the space to open up they will for sure.

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