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Anonymous

I really need an opinion on this-
I have a online friend, a guy. We started talking three months ago, and became good friends. He’s a private person and i know basically everything about him. So like few days ago, i sent a screenshot of our chat where he was talking about one of my friend, to that friend, and sent her reaction to him. At this he got really mad and asked me to not talk to him, he’s done. I know i was in the wrong, but i intended it a light joke, but didn’t expect this as a reaction. Now as you know he’s not talking to me. But we’re still connected i don’t know till how long. I’m missing him, getting anxiety because of it. And i have apologised to him. But he doesn’t want to talk to me.
Please tell me what to do.

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Anonymous

What is he really mad about?

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Anonymous

Me sharing our chat to my friend

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Anonymous

Apologize him until he gets convinced 😉

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Anonymous

I wish that would work. He’s a big time narcissist. Not saying that i don’t want to try, but i feel like that’s embarrassing. Plus he said “don’t talk to me.”

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Anonymous

We just friends 🥲 obv he wouldn’t want me so bad. But i think i should try to talk once

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Anonymous

Thank you i did. We did talk it out.

Anonymous

Try to have an honest conversation with him and ask him what he really is mad about??
I think reason would be something different from this.

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Anonymous

Really? I will try to talk tho, should I ask if he’s really never going to talk to me again?

Anonymous

No bro don’t ask this directly he’ll feel like you don’t want to talk

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Anonymous

Nooo then what 😭

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Anonymous

Can i be like " hey bud are you really never ever ever ever going to talk to me again?"

Anonymous

Be like
“Hey bud do you wanna have a conversation on whatever happened? Let’s clear things up!”

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Anonymous

Mature comment. 😇

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Anonymous

That sounds better. Thank you

Anonymous

Let me know what happens after this 🥺🥺

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Anonymous

Sure

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Anonymous

We did talk things out. Although some trust issues have occurred, we might work it through?

Anonymous

I hope everything works out in a good way for you people. Wishing you the best 😊

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Anonymous

Thank you

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Anonymous

I have been going to similar thing but trust me you haven’t done something wrong. But I would day its still initial you can move out of this …I have faced The same thing invested 7 months got blamed and that person walked off

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Anonymous

You didn’t try to reach out second time?

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Anonymous

I tried 100 of times ditching my self respect and suffered mentally that is why I am suggesting you to give priority to your self worth and move out of this coz this is a vicious circle even if you apologize he accepts again this same thing will happen and he will always keep blaming you and making you in self doubt

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Anonymous

And I also know the reason he will say you are not respecting my privacy n all

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Anonymous

And this is a tactic to make you feel guilty trust me

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Anonymous

I want to trust you 🥲 i can understand your point of view

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Anonymous

This is the second time, but last time he initiated 🥲

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Anonymous

If you want to give an effort you can but again same thing will happen.I can understand right now you are emotionally connected to him

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Anonymous

You’re right. I respect your opinion

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Anonymous

So you mean i should not text him?

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Anonymous

Yeah thank you

the @oneandonly_

It can be hard to ask. Most people say dont ask because you might break something up. Ask yourself will you able to forget him without asking? And if you answer no. Then just fuck it. Ask him. No bullshit. No beating around the bush. Just ask him. Lesser thinking on you. Lesser headache. Lesser heartache ✌🏼

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Anonymous

I’m going with this. Thank you

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the @oneandonly_

Glad i can be of help. Do keep me updated on how it goes tho. I have an online friend of my own too. Haha. And I’m here if you want to DM and talk girl

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Anonymous

Thank you! It went well i suppose. We talked.

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Anonymous

Say sorry and wait…for his response…Good connection never fails

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Anonymous

Sure thing

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Anonymous

Say her exactly same ’ B-C ladki me hu ya Tu. Itne natak mat kar 🙁🙏’

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Anonymous

Agar block ho gye toh meri zimmedaari nhi h 😼

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Anonymous

🥹😭😂

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Anonymous

The trick which is used by most of the males to make you feel guilty and fall for them I hope you think logically and leave him.

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