Asunder @asooh
I really donβt like the person my grandma is. She has a lot of negative things to say about people and shes alway yelling and criticizing. She yells at kids that come to play with my younger brother for no reason and if i wasnβt living with her i know that i would never set foot in her home fearing sheβll yell at me or something. Shes just not usually kind to people or when talking about them
DEVRAJ @devraj_11
Usually this happens to the people who are not understood fully aur sabka apna apna experience hota hai life ka β¦
Asunder @asooh
You think her problem might be that sheβs not understood?.. Nd i dont understand the last part of your sentence π¬
DEVRAJ @devraj_11
Where are you from β¦?
Asunder @asooh
South Africa
DEVRAJ @devraj_11
Oh I thought you wee from india β¦ Nm
Asunder @asooh
Sheβs the same, its just worse for me coz im always around her so i experience it more often than everyone else. She always has something to criticize and says im the worst child sheβs ever lived with and yet no one has ever really lived with her like me, they only spent weekends with her because during the week they spent half the day at school and after highschool they moved out. I know the people sheβs comparing me too and theyβre not as innocent as she insinuate they are, and she doesnβt get that i sacrificed my happiness and stayed here to take care of her coz im most definitely not happy here.
Joker πππ @joker279
Actually itβs not her fault. This type of things happens. I mean after some age people do get irritated and find faults in every small things and yelled at it. I have experienced same with my grandma too. But itβs just that even they donβt know about their behaviour.
Maybe she needs councelling opt for it. Itβs not that only the sick person goes for it β¦ no itβs not like that councelling is for any personβ¦
Asunder @asooh
Yeah she doesnβt realize sheβs this way but sheβs always been like that, as a kid my friend once asked why my grandma yells at me even when i did nothing wrong. Maybe old age has an impact but im just not convinced coz im almost 3 decades old and i donβt know her as someone else but this person.
Joker πππ @joker279
Yeah so start councelling of her you will find the change . If we the normal people try to convince her then she will get angry and yell more so better to councile her from the specialistβ¦
Best of luck π€ buddy