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@this_sucks

I realised that women don’t need to like me or the way I look and behave. They need to like some aspect of me. And since women like the fact that I study at a big University, that is the aspect of me I need to emphasize on. And since women don’t like me for my personality, I can treat them however I want to.

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Anonymous

Thts a very toxic mindset

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Anonymous

Did smone treated u badly?
Did smthg happened?

@this_sucks

To be fair, women don’t like me for mindset, so I’m sure they wouldn’t care lol

@this_sucks

I don’t believe in complaining.

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Anonymous

Look main aim of life is to be happy
And to be happy u need to survive and make changes in ur life
With tht kind of mindset u will find fault in everything
U need to loosen up
If it’s about mindset try to change tht coz I personally know few woman who are nothg compare to what u said

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ikea @ikea

Yeah some people are like that but that doesn’t give us the right to treat them however we want…:)

@this_sucks

Difference in opinion.

@this_sucks

And realise the fact that I’m not keen on treating anyone in anyway.

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ikea @ikea

Yeah I think…😅

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Anonymous

If I’m not wrong you did not mean as it’s said in the comments here right? I have seen other posts of yours. Yes people like some aspects of others and then tend to get into relationships, but the personality matters the most. Not all women are here only for the face, the way they are treated specifically when are in need of it matters, and they tend to do the same… to take care of you when you need it. So better not get into relationship or anything just because a girl is coming to you for the clg aspect ❤

@this_sucks

I’ve thought it out well, and to be honest I didn’t exactly understand your concerns. But I did notice you have assumed that women have formed relationships with me in the past, apparently based on my previous posts; no, they haven’t. I’ve never been in a relationship all my life. And a women who wants or need something from me will not try to be my equal, because she has already chosen her worth. That rules out taking revenge on me. Lol, imagine

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Anonymous

. . . yeah no that would never work

@this_sucks

But not a reason as to why it wouldn’t. Crazy.

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Anonymous

What big University are you from?

@this_sucks

I don’t see how that matters, but I’m studying at the MIT

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Anonymous

Massachusetts?

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@this_sucks

Yeah

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Anonymous

And your answer to women not liking you there is you’ll show off your university and treat them how you want?
Hmm i see they forgot to teach you humanity there my friend
You might get a girl by showing off your uni but you won’t get to keep her
Good luck tho
Have fun!

@this_sucks

You have misunderstood me. I’m not the sort of person to go all into impressing women. I just happened to notice that I got a lot of matches when I put the name of the institute I study at on my dating profile. So it’s a preference women already have, I’m just trying to push it.
And the part about your comment which annoyed me the most is them not teaching me humanity. They literally force us to take an HASS subject as a GIR. They haven’t even let us choose our major yet, for reference.

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Anonymous

Yes i might have been a little harsh
But you cannot say that you will treat them however you like cuz they were attracted to your university
Yes i too would choose someone who has MIT on their profile than someone who has a random college or none
But that’s because I’m assuming that they’re educated and come from a good background
If you didn’t get matches before adding MIT it might be because you didnt have an interesting enough profile before or that you didn’t give enough information to women for them to choose you…

@this_sucks

You didn’t understand my logic. If they don’t like me for my personality, then it means they will be willing to be with me regardless of how my personality is because that is not the aspect of me they are looking for. It means I can treat them however I want.
At the end of the day it boils down to a difference in opinion.

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