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Lia @leelia

I never realized how strong I was despite everything I went through until now, because I always thought โ€œoh, others have it worstโ€ I never felt like I could complain about all the things I was struggling with, but then I realized that thereโ€™s no such thing as worst, it is as bad as it effects you, the worst for you might not be the same as somebody elseโ€™s, and thatโ€™s okay we are different for many reasons, not everything is going to effect everyone the same, a situation that might not mean much to you , for somebody else it could destroy them. The life youโ€™d die for could be the death of somebody elseโ€™s living it. I had a friend who I thought gained everything and have a perfect life after we stopped talking, she was kinda popular, had a bunch of friends, got good grades, a boyfriend. From my eyes she had it all, people liked her now that she wasnโ€™t my friend while I was bullied and made fun of, I had no friends I was โ€œthe loserโ€ What I was going through was as valid as what she couldโ€™ve been going through, I thought she was fine, how couldnโ€™t she be? until a realized she had suicidal thoughts. I donโ€™t know anything about her now. After all I was going through it never cross my mind so i couldnโ€™t understand how could she feel like that? Then i realized i was being ungrateful, i was not thankful enough with life for giving me the strength she lacked at that moment. I had only compassion for the ones who " had it worst" why? well because as bad as it sounds we humans gain comfort from other peopleโ€™s problems, thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m here. Thatโ€™s what sympathy is, looking down on others to feel better about yourself. Iโ€™m working on improving that part of me but i still have my days.

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Sansthita @sansthita

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More power to u! Take care. Love and hugs

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