Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

I wish my mother would support me with my gender dysphoria.

You talked about it with her?

Yes, and she told me all her beliefs on transgenders.

So what do you think? Is there any hope?

Not when she believes them to be predators.

What about others on your family? Is there anyone who support you?

No

I’m sorry about that dr…many of them still have these misconceptions about this.Especially the elderly ones i think.Seems like it’s very difficult for them to accept it.Keep trying.Don’t lose your hope. After all she’s your mom rt. Hope she’ll understand you. May be it’ll take a little time.

It’s been over a year.

My brother made fun of me for it.

Try to persuade her even if it takes time.

How?

That’s bad 😤
Just ignore. Have you ever blamed yourself for it?

Yes, I was also annoyed at him when he did. Since he would be all like “ew, cooties” in a mocking tone.

I know someone like this.
It was difficult for her at first.Like yours her family didn’t supported her.She kept trying & talkin.There were a lot of hardship.Finally they accept her.Now a trans men.

Wtf.
I don’t understand why people still think like this.

I’m scared to try again.

He was 13 at the time.

But Dr do you have any other options rather than this?

Dr?

*dear 😃

Ok, dr means something else just so you know.

I don’t know what other options I have.

You have been through a lot.Hang in there.

What about your friends?

I do have friends. One who is also a pre-op trans girl.

That must be a relief for you. Rt?

Somewhat, but I still live in my mother’s house.

She was the one who made me aware I even had gender dysphoria.

Are you a student?

Yes

I know it’s hard. But I don’t want you to give up. May be these hardships you’re facing now is for a better tomorrow.

How do I stop feeling uncomfortable.

Focus on yourself.You did nothing wrong.They might say things which will make you uncomfortable.Try to ignore it.

You’re precious and you’re life is worth fighting for.

I mean physically, I always feel physically uncomfortable about my body now.

I think for the time being you have to cope up with it somehow.Since you’re a student n you’re family being not supportive.

On an unrelated note, I wish I was actually learning stuff.

Yes.

They only teach me what I already know, or make the class do fun activities for most of the lesson.

If not for the rntire lesson.

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