Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts

Well my girlfriend left me without even telling me a reason, and I don’t have any friends. And I am embarrassed to say anything to anyone.

Chill dude, there is nothing to get embarrassed about. Did u talked with her to ask the reason y she felt uh??
Did u guys had fight or anything which could ruin it??

you should sit and talk it out buddy. that’s the only way to solve these issues. there’s nothing to be embarrassed about. here for you. take care<3

I wanted to get serious but she kinda freaked out and hasn’t returned any of my texts.

Did u tried calling her? Some common friends she told anything? Any info or so??

We talked and her parents are skeptical about me and they are not letting her be with me. I guess I got my closure.

Yes now uh should move on from her then.

Can you give me some advice as I feel a void inside me

Yeah sure
U wanna talk here only or insta??

Can we talk on insta?

Can we REALLY talk??

Yeah surely we can talk
N I’m really sorry about replying so late

Forget it, I kinda talked to her for an hour this morning, we came to an understanding, that we can’t be together rn and that we should just spend some alone time now, and then think ahead.

Yeah u should now u got it all sorted so there’s no reason to convince her now. Give sometime to ur ownself come out from her. Focus on career. U’ll surely get someone else better than her

One day I had everything and then I didn’t had anything and I thought it would be serious so I never told any of my friends and now she is just cutting me off, what do i do to get my shit back together

Ohno): did she break up whit you?

Yeah. It’s all over now

I had planned so much and i really loved her and now everything looks so foggy and scary

Ohno): why did you guys break up

I wanted a commitment and she couldn’t as her family is conservative and didn’t liked her being with me.

Ohno ): i feel youre pain. maybe you should just close it out properly, and try a new hobby, meeting new people it worked well for me! if she is not willing to fight for you she is not worth it and you deserve much better

Well…I had not been in touch with her for a while so this feeling isn’t new but knowing that I can never have her is just too overwhelming

You know she used to tell me that whatever happens she will never leave me but now I don’t even matter to her

I really understand the feeling you are just missing a part of yourself

Heyy, I just broke up with my girlfriend after a year and a half

Thats sad to hear … but its not the end of the world ryt ? Relationships Are important but not everything … dont let it affect you … u ll overcome this eventually … its just a sad phase … it shall pass too

Just read ur texts with other empathiers… see u cant be holding on to something thats was never meant to be forever … it doesnt mean u lose a part of urself … prioritise ur basics as in relationships , work , profession etc … what if life has another plan and u never regret today later in life … as i said … lifes much more than relationships… u seeem a strong will ful person … it ll just a take single light to get u a headstart … find ur light ! See whats imp ! It will help u !

Thank you so much for this🤗

Thats what we are here for … !