I need help real quick⊠I mean i jst donât know wht to do, I donât know if im overreacting⊠I have a friend, im an introvert so I donât really know how to be friends with someone so i respected our friendship⊠Even if she becom rude to me i donât say a word that hurts them⊠she really loved me she really didnt wanted to give up on the friendship so do iâŠ
But As time passed they became rude they started disrespecting me⊠i even though sti tried to keep up, i had some more friends too⊠We were like 4 friends but im really close to only 2 of them. One of them were her⊠My other friends also started to stop loving her⊠cuz that too much than extra⊠She really be angry at us for nothing we really stopped talking to her⊠And then she tried too much to start talking to us again⊠She told me she had D.I.D(dissociative Identity disorder) or multiple Personality⊠Which canât be truly possible i guess she is lying⊠Cuz only 1.5% people have this disease and only those who had some real childhood trauma⊠She herself confirmed that she donât have such trauma she wasnât even medically diagnosed⊠she blamed every of her rude behaviour to her other personalityâŠ
Now that i researched this much i called her and confessed every like donât lie to us and then she was maybe i donât have DID bt i donât really remember what I do its something psychological⊠She ruined my mental health and she want me back i donât know what to do she ainât giving up and im becoming more mentally unstable i just donât know i want to die GOD WHAT SHOULD I DO
PLEASE HELP ME OUT đđ»đđ»
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
I too think tht but i feel tied upâŠ
Yes⊠so im tied up bcuz when i talked to her ( I didnât wanted to bt i jst wanted to tell her dont chase me) i told her wht she did i told her she ruined my mental state n then she automatically blamed it to her mental health she said it wasnât me i didnât evn knew when im rude⊠n then she told me how much we mean to her she donât want to let us go⊠She told about her parents that they didnât expected us to leave her⊠her parents are understanding but they jst canât sense her mental instability?? Bcuz of her parents and bcuz of the factor tht she ainât giving up⊠I donât want to involve again, she literally rely on us too much⊠She want to talk to us for like hours but i donât have that mch tym n then she get angry when we talk for like only 30 minutes⊠Its less for her⊠She force me to come at her place⊠She lives in another city⊠She blame my mother that she donât bring us there⊠I mean I canât help it i have my restrictions too⊠When i think about it i start to hate that we ever met⊠I wnt to give up on frndship but she says I wonât let u⊠Whenever i talk to her she make me feel guilty that I donât put her first in my priority list, acc to her we are her first priority and she blame me that i put myself first âŠ
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
Okk i accepted!
Sometimes you have to leave people for your own peace. Youâre not doing any wrong by putting yourself first. I pray things get better for you take care dear.
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
She says she puts us first and we people dont respect that⊠she says we broke her parents trust and i feel guilt about that. If only it wasnât about her parentsâŠ
She is giving you people guilty trip. Playing a victim card. You can just continue talking and slowly cut off the connection. Remember your mental health matters too.
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
Thank you for ur help iâll try my best on myself cuz she gives me bad vibes and i jst canât think about the past⊠I canât force myself
Pâ„ïž @prateek22
Thinking about yourself first is never wrong. IF u donât feel right and having mixed thoughts then just think of yourself first. What will make you happy.
Ur rit⊠evn tho she saying we never cared bout her⊠she said she still wanna be with me always n forever but i jst canât force myself
Child whoever be the reason to your unstable mental health should be cut off. Morethan being concerned about the past and being tied⊠itâs about you⊠Atlast we are gonna be alone and itâs important to take care of ourselves than being bothered about someone else.
First priority is always YOU
Take care dear
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
Thank you so much u guyss really helping me out⊠I was really so much disturbed and i guess its common among teenagers like meâŠ
