I need help real quick… I mean i jst don’t know wht to do, I don’t know if im overreacting… I have a friend, im an introvert so I don’t really know how to be friends with someone so i respected our friendship… Even if she becom rude to me i don’t say a word that hurts them… she really loved me she really didnt wanted to give up on the friendship so do i…
But As time passed they became rude they started disrespecting me… i even though sti tried to keep up, i had some more friends too… We were like 4 friends but im really close to only 2 of them. One of them were her… My other friends also started to stop loving her… cuz that too much than extra… She really be angry at us for nothing we really stopped talking to her… And then she tried too much to start talking to us again… She told me she had D.I.D(dissociative Identity disorder) or multiple Personality… Which can’t be truly possible i guess she is lying… Cuz only 1.5% people have this disease and only those who had some real childhood trauma… She herself confirmed that she don’t have such trauma she wasn’t even medically diagnosed… she blamed every of her rude behaviour to her other personality…
Now that i researched this much i called her and confessed every like don’t lie to us and then she was maybe i don’t have DID bt i don’t really remember what I do its something psychological… She ruined my mental health and she want me back i don’t know what to do she ain’t giving up and im becoming more mentally unstable i just don’t know i want to die GOD WHAT SHOULD I DO
PLEASE HELP ME OUT 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
I too think tht but i feel tied up…
Yes… so im tied up bcuz when i talked to her ( I didn’t wanted to bt i jst wanted to tell her dont chase me) i told her wht she did i told her she ruined my mental state n then she automatically blamed it to her mental health she said it wasn’t me i didn’t evn knew when im rude… n then she told me how much we mean to her she don’t want to let us go… She told about her parents that they didn’t expected us to leave her… her parents are understanding but they jst can’t sense her mental instability?? Bcuz of her parents and bcuz of the factor tht she ain’t giving up… I don’t want to involve again, she literally rely on us too much… She want to talk to us for like hours but i don’t have that mch tym n then she get angry when we talk for like only 30 minutes… Its less for her… She force me to come at her place… She lives in another city… She blame my mother that she don’t bring us there… I mean I can’t help it i have my restrictions too… When i think about it i start to hate that we ever met… I wnt to give up on frndship but she says I won’t let u… Whenever i talk to her she make me feel guilty that I don’t put her first in my priority list, acc to her we are her first priority and she blame me that i put myself first …
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
Okk i accepted!
Sometimes you have to leave people for your own peace. You’re not doing any wrong by putting yourself first. I pray things get better for you take care dear.
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
She says she puts us first and we people dont respect that… she says we broke her parents trust and i feel guilt about that. If only it wasn’t about her parents…
She is giving you people guilty trip. Playing a victim card. You can just continue talking and slowly cut off the connection. Remember your mental health matters too.
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
Thank you for ur help i’ll try my best on myself cuz she gives me bad vibes and i jst can’t think about the past… I can’t force myself
P♥️ @prateek22
Thinking about yourself first is never wrong. IF u don’t feel right and having mixed thoughts then just think of yourself first. What will make you happy.
Ur rit… evn tho she saying we never cared bout her… she said she still wanna be with me always n forever but i jst can’t force myself
Child whoever be the reason to your unstable mental health should be cut off. Morethan being concerned about the past and being tied… it’s about you… Atlast we are gonna be alone and it’s important to take care of ourselves than being bothered about someone else.
First priority is always YOU
Take care dear
Uchiha @uchihaheiress
Thank you so much u guyss really helping me out… I was really so much disturbed and i guess its common among teenagers like me…
