i need and advice about this one and it will be longā¦so uh i have a bestfriend and the like a few months later we found ourselves having like a group of friendsā¦lets say 8 people were added and i notice that the new people and my bestfriend really get along like reallyā¦its like they clicked but they still talk to me as well and i really dont mind them being close to herā¦but you knowā¦sometimes when that 8 people chats me its so different when they chat her like the energy and all and then most of the time when they chat me its either they want me to call with my bestfriend or just praising my bestfriendā¦in my faceā¦most of the time so lets say everydayā¦ I honestly dont mind it that much cuz my bestfriend deserves all that praise and other good stuffā¦ but im also a person and i also crave for that kind of appreciationā¦cuz its feels niceā¦she always gets praise like that while im hereā¦in the cornerā¦just looking at how bright she is to themā¦ Theyāre more concern to her as wellā¦the day she was sick they always chat me saying that they miss her and them being worried and stuff like they canāt sleep when sheās not feeling good when sheās sad they rush to her and comfort her and make her happyā¦but when it comes to meā¦when i got sick all of them just said āfeel betterā and then they go back talking to herā¦vibing with herā¦ when im sad theyāll just say ācheer upā you know the feeling like im glad they still care for me like that but at the same i feel like they were just forcefully doing that so they have a good image to my bestfriendā¦??..the day my bestfriend told us that sheās not gonna message anyone for a day cuz she needs to give time for herselfā¦all of them were saying āno no dont leaveā stuff like that and then theyāre chatting me saying that they lost their energy cuz sheās not there with usā¦but when i did that they just said āokay byeeā and thenā¦goneā¦vanishā¦i just wanna feel appreciatedā¦i dont want be jealous of my bestfriend but its hard not to you knowā¦ it hurts
look this may sound rude but I think you should try making new friends since eventually she will leave you. Maybe it just happened to me and that was how my friend was. She was my best friend for years and then she made like 5 new friends and hung out with them a lot and ignored me too and one day she just wrote me a letter and it said all the meanest things you have ever heard and she told me I cannot be friends with her friends and she told me to never talk to her again. This was all because I said to her that I didnāt like how she hung out with her other friends and never had time for me. Well I was heart broken and I actually cried a lot and the next day I was like a stranger to her. So please listen to my advice.
Hmā¦ Be joyful yourselfā¦ Make some new freinds too.
