I need advice. So I know for a fact that one of my friends have been avoiding me and i know that he've been hiding something from me for such a long time now... I don't know what to do with him can anyone please tell me what should i do... He can't be his self when i'm around and he doesn't even talk much... I did nothing wrong to him he's my friend for about 7 years now. 

Friends

It's tough when you no longer have the one or someone it comfort you through tough times. It never ends and when Hope's in short supply then what can one do? 

Frustration

Have a great day y’all 

Life

Hi all,
Me and my boy friend love alot to each other. We work in same office. I am a very strong person yet a very very emotional person. Its been 6 months that his attitude and behavior has been changed. I almost beg him Everytime to be with me..I love him to the core of my heart. He is a good person. I don't know but I feel his feeling is changed. Now he has applied for another company and he will be leave office and he is not bothered to discuss anything with me. I can't believe how a person can change like this. My days are going simply crying, dying inside. He says I should not be taking things to heart. I feel he played with my emotions. I feel like dying..I am not able to control myself..I see him every day at office, same department. I really don't know how to deal with it. Really going into sevior depression...please help me

Relationships

Well, I’m very bad at expressing so i don’t know how do i start and express my feelings into words in a better way. 
But here it is -
So, lately i have not been feeling progressive or any type of growth in my life. I feel I’m stuck at one place since past 1-2years. 
My friends have moved to new city, everyone’s got busy with their lives, so you loose the touch with them (and miss the good old times) and Also, I’m not doing great with my career; I don’t see any growth in my professional life. It just feels as if my life has Paused. Though i have been trying to keep myself motivated but at the end you just loose your patience. And by end of the day when I replay everything I just feel as if i have not achieved anything in life. And because of all this i have started overthinking a lot and it just drains my energy. How do i overcome this ?

Overthinking


When is all this pain going to end. Is that im paying for all the mistakes i made .I feel so drained I don’t feel anything i feel like I’m outsider in my own body I feel so horrible about myself i feel im a very bad person even though they said they have forgiven me im still paying for everything. I mean I was treated badly by someone else i didn’t have to make them feel the same way I felt because it was a very horrible experience for me. I really hate it that the person that messed me up gets to be very happy and im here stuck and all what he did to me is really affecting me. Because of him i couldn’t trust anyone he made me feel there was something wrong with me. Right now i can’t talk to anyone about how I feel because at the end it will be like I talk too much. I wish i could make all this pain end forever 

Mental Health

For the last couple of years, I have felt like an outsider with a certain group of friends I'm in. Some of them, I've known since childhood, unfortunately, they changed. They go to the gym, have their own cars, some of them got promoted in their job. I on the other hand, don't feel like going to the gym so I excercise and try to stay in shape by other means (running and basketball). I don't have a driver's license because I get too nervous when I get to the final exam. It's just the situation of it all stresses me out so I gave up for a bit. I will go back and get a license, eventually, but I don't really want to do it now. Same with the gym. It just isn't my thing. Yet, nowadays, when we get together, I always get judged for things like that, because I'm not like them. Some of them got promoted in their jobs. And now all of a sudden I get constantly asked, when will I get promoted on my job. While these are things I'm working on, there aren't anything mandatory, yet I get this additional pressure. When we were kids and teens, hanging out with them was fine. We would laugh together, do stuff, we didn't have full-time jobs, so we were at least on the same page. And this is the only group this happens in. I have another group of friends that I can just laugh, talk to and enjoy myself. In general I tend to always lighten up the mood with humor, mess around and joke but nothing too serious. But in this current group, I simply cannot be me. Whenever I say something, I get looked down upon, riddiculed. Even now, I went out with them today and we played a board game called "Activity" which is about explaining words with speech, drawing or charades. I am quite bad and drawing and charades, and I tend to overcomplicate things. Yet, after the game was over, they made me explain random words and act stupid for their amusement. When I intentionally do something to make a person laugh, I have no issue, but when I am deliberately made fun of, it really gets me down like I don't belong there at all. So much so that these days, I tend to rarely go out with them. And whenver I feel like, I haven't seen them in a while and we should hang out, something happens that confirms my initial intention to distance myself from them. I just want to be accepted for being me and be treated as an equal. We're not kids anymore, but grown adults. Just because I may not be as succesfull in some areas that they are, doesn't mean I have to strive to be like them. I'm just me with no gimmicks. So yeah, I felt like sharing since, I'm still feeling down cuz of that stupid board game. I just don't understand why this happens with only THIS group. I don't wanna abandon them fully since we stuck together through some hard times, but limiting my interaction with them is probably the best thing I can do.

Insecurity

Yeah you know what you are right Choudhary.
You are absolutely right you are my one first true love. Someone who I love more than myself. I tried to run from it hide from it but it just wont go. I agree I have loved people before and alot of have them loved me. But it was just for a time being.  Even after 2 years and everything that had happened between us I am still here waiting for you. Yes I love you I love you way too much love that I am so afraid of love which has benn and can destroy me completely and hopelessly

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